Don't know how to tease people

Let me promise you this- this is not a thought shared by all women. It’s a preference like anything else. It’s nice to have banter with someone, but from my perspective, I’d much rather be with someone who treats me kindly and with respect than someone who just jokes all the time. I can guarantee you that being a nice guy won’t stop you finding love, you just need to meet the right person!

Hmm I keep being told I will, but its then wondering how to do this.

Thanks for the insights though

From what I can gather, girls don't actively seek out a "bad boy" or a "nice guy" just someone to have fun with and make them smile.

But to do that you need to be confident and comfortable in your own skin to do so, the problem is that the "bad boy" type of persona radiates confidence, mostly too much, which is good for a night out but not for relationships. which is why they're called "bad boys."

The reason why "nice guys" fail is they put them on a pedestal because they think the girl is perfect and the girl is afraid that she'll never live up to that and therefore can never get comfortable to joke around with them as much.

Just be yourself and comfortable in who you are and show your true self to people. You'll be able to notice who is interested. Hope this helps

Yeah definitely agree with a lot of what you say, makes sense

I don't think girls are perfect but haven't had a lot of experience with them, not even many female friends so this could be an issue. Can talk to them okay and joke around, but maybe not escalate further which is what works at the end of the day.

Feel like my true self is boring. Have a fair amount of knowledge and found people to be bored by the detail I go into on things so have just started to suppress myself to appeal to more..