My mum is horrible to me because she says I am "naturally pretty" and she is apparently not, although no one in my family has ever been mean to her and we don't even see what she does. She always calls herself fat and then puts others down and then makes jibes at me for being skinny, even though I have had anorexia aswell as anxiety and depression. I understand feeling insecure but she has been basically verbally abusing me for years, and then acts all sweet and innocent when I get upset, acting like I am manipulative. She also makes fun of anything I like to do and puts on a sulky attitude when I politely decline doing something she suggests because I don't feel comfortable with it (eg horse riding, yoga, going to the spa???) I don't dress very girly either, but she always tries to make me wear flowery dresses and is super controlling over where I go and what I do. Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset?