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Why do I become attached to everyone?

I know this might sound a bit weird because I’m a lad but I become attached to everyone I encounter no matter who they are. I’m obviously attached to my mates etc but e.g a customer comes into my work and we get speaking and when they leave I become sad, the same happens if a stranger smiles at me and when I’ve walked past them I become sad, when I’m going out to a restaurant and the waiter takes my order and when they leave I become sad and it happens every time with everyone and I spend the rest of the day thinking about them how can I stop it

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You're a sweet person, my heart hugged itself reading this. :smile:
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You're a sweet person, my heart hugged itself reading this. :smile:

Thank you you are too! 😅 I hate it though I have attachment issues and I don’t want them 🤧
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It’s literally the worst thing is it not 😂
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*We will be amazing doctors sorry I just got a moment of optimism 😂
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st by Hellohsjakodsmka)Oops 🙈 *we will*
But then again, we might become attached to our patients and that's not always a good thing ygm
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Omg do you not know what that meme is? 🤣😭
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I know this might sound a bit weird because I’m a lad but I become attached to everyone I encounter no matter who they are. I’m obviously attached to my mates etc but e.g a customer comes into my work and we get speaking and when they leave I become sad, the same happens if a stranger smiles at me and when I’ve walked past them I become sad, when I’m going out to a restaurant and the waiter takes my order and when they leave I become sad and it happens every time with everyone and I spend the rest of the day thinking about them how can I stop it

its just ur desire to have someone u can keep interacting with, and ur mind is trying to grab the chance to do it everytime u see someone, and this is not bad
Better to love than to hate u know?:smile:
This is so cute :biggrin:
You probably just thrive off of social interaction and that might be what makes you feel this way. I don’t mind being alone and I’m pretty independent, but I enjoy talking to people too much and prefer it when someone’s around to chat to :laugh:
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It’s okay not everyone can be cool 😂 you must not have twitter then it’s one of my favourites 🤣
Tbh I'm the complete opposite but don't worry about it I think you just need to be more independent and self reliant. Learn to love being with yourself if that makes sense.

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its just ur desire to have someone u can keep interacting with, and ur mind is trying to grab the chance to do it everytime u see someone, and this is not bad
Better to love than to hate u know?:smile:

It could be that honestly who knows and yeah ofc! Thanks man 😅
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It could be that honestly who knows and yeah ofc! Thanks man 😅

no problems:smile:
may the blessings of Raptor Jesus be with u:angelwings:
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Boomer 😂
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Original post by ishih-tzunot
This is so cute :biggrin:
You probably just thrive off of social interaction and that might be what makes you feel this way. I don’t mind being alone and I’m pretty independent, but I enjoy talking to people too much and prefer it when someone’s around to chat to :laugh:

Thank you! 😅 Yeah I am very sociable but I can’t understand why I become attached to strangers do you not think it’s a bit odd? I hate being alone it’s one of the worst things and yeah me too! Thank you 😁
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Tbh I'm the complete opposite but don't worry about it I think you just need to be more independent and self reliant. Learn to love being with yourself if that makes sense.

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Nothing wrong with that man! Yeah I don’t mind being by myself but I just find it so boring 😂 Don’t worry you’re not and ofc no judgment here, thank you!
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Nothing wrong with that man! Yeah I don’t mind being by myself but I just find it so boring 😂 Don’t worry you’re not and ofc no judgment here, thank you!

Glad to help :h:
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Thank you! 😅 Yeah I am very sociable but I can’t understand why I become attached to strangers do you not think it’s a bit odd? I hate being alone it’s one of the worst things and yeah me too! Thank you 😁


It may be a little unusual but as long as it’s not doing anybody any harm I think it’s fine :laugh:
If you say you’re pretty independent then you probably just need to work on being more comfortable in your own company, don’t stress about it x
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It may be a little unusual but as long as it’s not doing anybody any harm I think it’s fine :laugh:
If you say you’re pretty independent then you probably just need to work on being more comfortable in your own company, don’t stress about it x

Yeah I don’t think it’s too bad I still don’t know why it happens though and yeah that’s true! :smile: I’ll work on that I just find it so boring being by myself compared to when I’m around people hahaha I will not and neither should you! Thank you! 😅 x

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