I’m so scared to lose my virginity

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I’m 16 Almost 17 year old girl and I’ve turned down multiple hook ups etc because I am just simply scared of the pain and the look of my labia is big I feel like boys would mock me. Do boys actually mind what it looks like
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Simply if they bully for it, they don't deserve you, I don't mind the size personly its all feels good,
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Simply if they bully for it, they don't deserve you, I don't mind the size personly its all feels good,
Thank you , this makes me feel better
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I’m 16 Almost 17 year old girl and I’ve turned down multiple hook ups etc because I am just simply scared of the pain and the look of my labia is big I feel like boys would mock me. Do boys actually mind what it looks like
Guys dont really care too much about that. I personally find big labia sexy...

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Guys dont really care too much about that. I personally find big labia sexy...

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Really? Okay thank you
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Really? Okay thank you


yeah for real. There's lots of younger girls who think like you do but if a guy likes you he won't care about how big your labia is and most of my friends find big labia way better looking anyways
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I’m 16 Almost 17 year old girl and I’ve turned down multiple hook ups etc because I am just simply scared of the pain and the look of my labia is big I feel like boys would mock me. Do boys actually mind what it looks like
Guys that I know do care about how labias look.
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Guys that I know do care about how labias look.
yeah but not when youre about to have sex
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yeah but not when youre about to have sex
That's exactly what I was referring to. Its not something that you can separate from the person unfortunately.
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That's exactly what I was referring to. Its not something that you can separate from the person unfortunately.
Damn this makes me feel even more sh*t
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Damn this makes me feel even more sh*t


only way you can get confident is by hooking up with a guy and you will see he won't care
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Damn this makes me feel even more sh*t
No. don't feel bad. It is quite easy for you to do Internet research and then you will find out that lots of girls are the same as you. Why worry? And take your time to think before you have sex. There is no rush at all.
you could search throw cosmopolitan.com and find out the different types.
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I’m 16 Almost 17 year old girl and I’ve turned down multiple hook ups etc because I am just simply scared of the pain and the look of my labia is big I feel like boys would mock me. Do boys actually mind what it looks like
According to my boyfriend, boys don't care about the size of your labia. As for the pain of losing your virginity, it didn't really hurt as much as people say when I lost mine. I have just turned 17. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around this time last year. We had been together for 6 months and were very comfortable with each other which made it much less awkward and comfortable. We had done other things previous to this to help me get over my fear. Maybe this could help you?
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According to my boyfriend, boys don't care about the size of your labia. As for the pain of losing your virginity, it didn't really hurt as much as people say when I lost mine. I have just turned 17. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around this time last year. We had been together for 6 months and were very comfortable with each other which made it much less awkward and comfortable. We had done other things previous to this to help me get over my fear. Maybe this could help you?
Look the thing is we do care about how vaginas look, and especially when I watch porn I get more excited when I like the way the vagina looks. But it's kind off the same thing as the size of our penis. Yes it matters in theory but when you're with someone it doesnt really matter. I just want to tell you don't worry about all that stuff. No man is going to tell you you have an ugly vagina and they dont wanna have sex with you because of that. You can believe what you want but that's the way it is.
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