Is This Girl Messing Me Around?

So I was in a relationship with a girl last year for only two months but we broke up, she got with another guy for a couple months and then dumped him because she still had feelings for ME. She began talking to me a few months later and for a good 5 months was clearly trying to win me back. I recently agreed to meet up with her.

She constantly talks about how much she misses my smell, hugs and lips. When I actually try to arrange to meet up, she always dodges conversation by saying “we will talk about it tonight” and then never does. Why is she messaging or calling me every day then and saying all these things she misses about me? I’m actually so confused.

I’m a girl and if I was acting like that and this might sound harsh and also might not be the case... I would like the idea of you but know that when I meet you you’re not that?? However it may not be all bad news, she might just be really nervous about it. When I start talking to guys, especially if it’s mainly over text the idea of meeting them in person is terrifying. Maybe just lay all you’re feelings out and don’t make her feel judged, maybe tell her something you’re worried about which might make her feel more comfortable to open up. But bring it up with her, you don’t want to be lead on

So I was in a relationship with a girl last year for only two months but we broke up, she got with another guy for a couple months and then dumped him because she still had feelings for ME. She began talking to me a few months later and for a good 5 months was clearly trying to win me back. I recently agreed to meet up with her.

She constantly talks about how much she misses my smell, hugs and lips. When I actually try to arrange to meet up, she always dodges conversation by saying “we will talk about it tonight” and then never does. Why is she messaging or calling me every day then and saying all these things she misses about me? I’m actually so confused.

Maybe she doesn't want to lose you but at the same time she's afraid to meet up, but if I am being honest it seems weird for her to say that she misses you and then not agree to meet up, I am a girl too and would never do that cuz it just looks weird, ygm??

Yeah 100% get you. We’re apparently meeting on Tuesday but it’s taking her a while to acc get her to mention what location we are meeting at. I wouldn’t usually give exes a second chance as such so this is definitely an exception but if she leads me on in the next few days, I’m just going to stop all contact. I get she could be nervous but I still think it is unfair on me to be saying all those things and then dodge meeting up.

Yeah see what happens this time and if it doesn't work out then just stop, and yeah I 100% agree with her being unfair to you cuz if she's dumped her bf for you and she says all those things about missing you the surely she's got show it cuz rn it doesn't seem like she's showing, am I right in saying so???

She definitely shows she misses me through text or phone call (like to mention she usually contacts first, I only contact when to talk about meeting up) but when it comes to talking about actually meeting up, she tries to change conversation and it makes me feel like I’m being annoying when I really know I’m not.

Hmmmm, i'd say just see what happens on Tuesday and if it doesn't work out then it's best to end it, i'm sorry despite being a girl I didn't help as much

Nah you were fine ahaha. She just messaged saying she is a little worried because of coronavirus. How do I respond to this? Anybody? I don’t want to sound ignorant because from what I know, she doesn’t have a health condition. However, I don’t know about her family. Although, we’re going to a park which is usually empty just the two of us so it’s not like we’re in large crowds. On top of that, I do think it will get to that point where we can’t just not meet because there’s still some cases of coronavirus. For all I know, coronavirus may never go away and I’m not interested in something virtual.

Nah you were fine ahaha. She just messaged saying she is a little worried because of coronavirus. How do I respond to this? Anybody? I don’t want to sound ignorant because from what I know, she doesn’t have a health condition. However, I don’t know about her family. Although, we’re going to a park which is usually empty just the two of us so it’s not like we’re in large crowds. On top of that, I do think it will get to that point where we can’t just not meet because there’s still some cases of coronavirus. For all I know, coronavirus may never go away and I’m not interested in something virtual.

I don't think you should meet up in this situation if she doesn't want to or doesn't feel safe. And the coronavirus will eventually come to an end. I would wait until lockdown has been completely lifted to meet up

I don't think you should meet up in this situation if she doesn't want to or doesn't feel safe. And the coronavirus will eventually come to an end. I would wait until lockdown has been completely lifted to meet up

Yeah I just worry that when lockdown is completely lifted up, she still acts like this and I’ve wasted a load of time thinking about this girl. When we were going out last year for two months, she was very flakey in the last three weeks.

Nah you were fine ahaha. She just messaged saying she is a little worried because of coronavirus. How do I respond to this? Anybody? I don’t want to sound ignorant because from what I know, she doesn’t have a health condition. However, I don’t know about her family. Although, we’re going to a park which is usually empty just the two of us so it’s not like we’re in large crowds. On top of that, I do think it will get to that point where we can’t just not meet because there’s still some cases of coronavirus. For all I know, coronavirus may never go away and I’m not interested in something virtual.