How to deal with ghosting

Hi everyone, suppose I need to offload my feelings at the moment.

I am 24 year old male and for quite a few years i've put off dating and relationships as I suppose I haven't been able to find anyone I feel comfortable with. Recently I met this girl online and it felt like we clicked immediately. For a few weeks we've chatted and everything seems perfect, and she even seemed really into me. I couldn't believe the connection and it felt genuine so I kind of loosened up a bit.

We were talking again last night and she told me she had to go but would be back. However she was online for awhile throughout the night, replying to other messages and even changing her profile photo but never got back to me. I sent her a message which was ignored.

I just feel like absolute crap at the moment seeing as how I finally opened up to someone and I just feel disappointed that she wouldn't message me back. Nothing bad was said so I don't see the reason for it. Obviously I don't excpect to be entitled to a response from her, but I just feel like an idiot that she now wants to blank me and would have at least preffered to been told the truth rather than led on (which it feels like).

I honestly saw myself considering taking our friendship further (as did she) but if, and when she gets back I don't really know how to address this. I feel foolish for raising it and personally seeing it as a problem which would just cause more issues, but for some reason I feel extremely disappointed over it.

Any suggestions as to what I can do?

Hi everyone, suppose I need to offload my feelings at the moment.

I am 24 year old male and for quite a few years i've put off dating and relationships as I suppose I haven't been able to find anyone I feel comfortable with. Recently I met this girl online and it felt like we clicked immediately. For a few weeks we've chatted and everything seems perfect, and she even seemed really into me. I couldn't believe the connection and it felt genuine so I kind of loosened up a bit.

We were talking again last night and she told me she had to go but would be back. However she was online for awhile throughout the night, replying to other messages and even changing her profile photo but never got back to me. I sent her a message which was ignored.

I just feel like absolute crap at the moment seeing as how I finally opened up to someone and I just feel disappointed that she wouldn't message me back. Nothing bad was said so I don't see the reason for it. Obviously I don't excpect to be entitled to a response from her, but I just feel like an idiot that she now wants to blank me and would have at least preffered to been told the truth rather than led on (which it feels like).

I honestly saw myself considering taking our friendship further (as did she) but if, and when she gets back I don't really know how to address this. I feel foolish for raising it and personally seeing it as a problem which would just cause more issues, but for some reason I feel extremely disappointed over it.

Any suggestions as to what I can do?

Thanks for the replys all and suggestions which i've tried to take to heart.

Afraid I still haven't heard anything, so i'll leave it until the morning. If she gets back to me i'll be honest with her otherwise if I don't i'll just take the hint and move on.

Hi everyone, suppose I need to offload my feelings at the moment.

I am 24 year old male and for quite a few years i've put off dating and relationships as I suppose I haven't been able to find anyone I feel comfortable with. Recently I met this girl online and it felt like we clicked immediately. For a few weeks we've chatted and everything seems perfect, and she even seemed really into me. I couldn't believe the connection and it felt genuine so I kind of loosened up a bit.

We were talking again last night and she told me she had to go but would be back. However she was online for awhile throughout the night, replying to other messages and even changing her profile photo but never got back to me. I sent her a message which was ignored.

I just feel like absolute crap at the moment seeing as how I finally opened up to someone and I just feel disappointed that she wouldn't message me back. Nothing bad was said so I don't see the reason for it. Obviously I don't excpect to be entitled to a response from her, but I just feel like an idiot that she now wants to blank me and would have at least preffered to been told the truth rather than led on (which it feels like).

I honestly saw myself considering taking our friendship further (as did she) but if, and when she gets back I don't really know how to address this. I feel foolish for raising it and personally seeing it as a problem which would just cause more issues, but for some reason I feel extremely disappointed over it.

Any suggestions as to what I can do?