Why do I like dirty talk?Watch
But I often feel very weird and conflicted afterwards because that kind of dirty talk is still a little bit degrading or humiliating if you think about it logically. I know it is not a hardcore fetish or anything but it bothers me a lot.
I used to think people who are submissive or dominant are just into that kind of dirty talk and being playful, but nowadays I realise a lot of them are actually talking about really hardcore unhygienic sadistic BDSM stuff. I am worried that enjoying this kind of dirty talk might increase my proximity to those people. (I don't judge them, but I think I would prefer to stay away from them after talking to some of them.)
So what should I do? Should I just stop fretting? Or is enjoying that kind of dirty talk a sign of low self esteem or something? I honestly don't know. I think I need some advice.
Yes I think that's sensible to stay away from them imo....
So if I were you I wouldn't fret, most guys will happily be dominant without being too much. and you can enjoy dirty talk without it being degrading vocab.