1 meet and start talking with lots and lots of guys.
2 be playful and fun when you speak with them
3 avoid interview type conversations during the initial phases. Be more fun and focus on doing stuff together. Like playing pool or darts with them in a pub setting instead of sitting there talking.
4 make yourself a good product. Or maintain yourself as a good product. Looks, personality, character, self confidence, charisma, practical life skills - inparticular being competent in bed.
5 If someone's not interested in you, move onto the next guy ASAP.
6 Take the lead when appropriate but don't chase after them too much or come across as needy. Take the attitude that you are interested in finding out if the two of you will be compatible and that it's totally OK and fine if they are not interested in you. Because you would just move on to someone that is. Be non-committal about how much you like him until the 2 of you are well and truly boyfriend and girlfriend - whilst making it apparent that you are eager to learn more about him.
7 During the getting to know each other phase, break some harmless rule together.
8 Be like a TV series that ends every episode on a high. That leaves the audience yearning for more. It's fine if your initial dates are short. Or shorter than both of you would ideally like. If they end on a high, and don't quite satisfy him, he'll be left wanting more.
9 Don't be negative when you are with him. Don't moan about the weather or Covid 19 or say bad things about mutual friends. Don't lose your temper in front of him.
10 Don't be a yes girl. Politely and firmly state your own opinions and stand by your own convictions, even if they, at times, contradict his.
11 1 or 2 direct compliments to him per meeting is about the right amount. No compliments = does she like me? Too many compliments = comes over as desperate or satisfies him too much. Better to leave him hungry for more compliments.
12 Don't bombard him with texts. Your texts should thank him sincerely, once, for the last meeting. Further texts should then be about sorting out the time, place and theme of your next meeting.
13 don't stick rigidly to any guidelines when it comes to getting someone to fall in love with you. Use them as a rough guide and a rough template for your behaviour. Not as laws to be followed dogmatically.
14 there is a lot of advice out there in books, the Internet, films, TV, pop songs, friends, family that won't help or will harm your chances of getting someone to love you. Watch out for people talking nonsense on this subject. Or using surface logic stuff that doesn't work well at the coal face.