Having no luck with tinder? Any Asian guys in the same boat?

Re downloaded Tinder about a week ago and have been active on it, but not swiping on everyone deliberately.

Put better photos up, decent bio, etc but I've heard that Asian guys in particular have a tougher time on here.

Anyone had similar experiences?

Yeah Tinder has really gone downhill for me since lockdown started. Before the pandemic I used to get 1 or 2 matches a day or every other day, and some matches would actually reply. Nowadays I’m barely getting 4 matches in a week after swiping on so many girls nearly every night. The ones I do get are either really off-putting, or the very shady fake looking profiles with one picture and nothing in the bio. They also don’t reply as often as they used to, and it’s got to the point where I’m just fed up of messaging anyone now. I have about 30 matches built up over the last 4 months who I haven’t messaged cos I know they’re just gonna ignore. You’d think that during lockdown when lots of girls are working from home or have lost their jobs and hence have a lot of free time on their hands, they would be paying more attention to matches. But in fact they’re replying even less than they used to. I’m thinking of just cancelling Tinder altogether and uninstalling it permanently.

Guys, don't force it, at the right time, the right girl will come There is no point in chasing love as it won't be successful!!

Re downloaded Tinder about a week ago and have been active on it, but not swiping on everyone deliberately.

Put better photos up, decent bio, etc but I've heard that Asian guys in particular have a tougher time on here.

Anyone had similar experiences?

Don't use dating apps/websites as you won't be able to compete with the very good looking guys. Meet girls in real life so they can get to know your personality more.

Aw you're cute. Tinder isn't genuinely used as an app for finding love. It's notorious for being a place for a quick hook-up.

Kind of like a fast food take away.

If what you’re looking for is a partner rather than a quick shag, then I whole-heartedly recommend Hinge.

I met my current girlfriend on there and I’m by no means the most attractive guy 😂 Hinge allows you to show off your personality more than simply swiping left or right depending upon if someone is physically attractive.

*disclaimer* I’m not Asian, if I were any whiter and sweeter I’d be a cheesecake.

*disclaimer* I’m not Asian, if I were any whiter and sweeter I’d be a cheesecake.

this made me laugh so much!

Guys, don't force it, at the right time, the right girl will come There is no point in chasing love as it won't be successful!!

But some use it to find love, I don't know man, I don't use dating apps.

Yeah I think this explains a lot. When you don’t use dating apps, you don’t really know what you’re talking about here.

Don't use dating apps/websites as you won't be able to compete with the very good looking guys. Meet girls in real life so they can get to know your personality more.

NGL I find this a bit patronising. Not all of us are in a position to meet girls face to face. The reason we use Tinder in the first place is because we don’t meet any girls in person or we don’t get anywhere with them.

Who said anything about “chasing love” when most people openly admit they use Tinder for hook ups? The point of this thread is that it’s difficult enough for Asian guys to get anywhere on it, so I don’t see how your comments are helping.




Yeah I think this explains a lot. When you don’t use dating apps, you don’t really know what you’re talking about here.

Couldn't agree more with this.

Only had 5 matches on Tinder, yet only 1 responded to my opening message but completely ignored my reply to a question she asked.

Again, I don't think I look like the top Bollywood actor, nor do I resemble the elephant man but it's getting ridiculous to open the app every day after swiping hundreds of people and get the same 'no new matches' message.

A girl just posted about meeting a guy for sex from Tinder after only meeting once. I find girls take it for granted how easy they have it on there where they can just filter through who's the most 'f***able'. At some stage, I'd be comfortable with a hookup if it was on the cards..

In real life, I don't get attention from girls anyway so its not any better. I thought I'd find 'love' at uni but that went swimmingly, so here I am..

I know for a fact that if I put up pictures of myself in amateur modelling poses, topless shots of my physique and working hard in the gym, pictures of me knocking down other guys in aggressive sports like football and rugby, and some poses with expensive cars, guns and other girls - not only would I get hundreds of matches, but girls would actually message first and initiate everything.

If you look for shallow women like that, of course you are going to hold the low opinion of women that you do There are plenty of highly intelligent women who wouldn't look twice at those sorts of photos, you just aren't going to find them on Twitter. All the nonsense about not meeting women irl is just that - nonsense. You are either not looking in the right places, or the problem is with you and your personality (and based on how you talk about women, it is very much the latter in your case).

Clearly you haven’t been paying attention to this thread as you’re just talking out of your backside. OP says he didn’t meet any girls at uni, and now he’s graduated he will find it harder to meet someone. According to your logic, you’re saying it’s his fault he wasn’t in the right place to find someone or there’s something wrong with his personality and that’s just rude. Such a lack of compassion and outright BS. All we normal guys do is watch how girls behave and what the guys who are successful with girls are doing right. The facts speak for themselves no matter how much ignorant girls like you deny it. Clearly ignorance is bliss.