He wont do it for me?

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(Original post by laughinglad999)
Thank you if l was dating a girl l would always please her in every way in bed and out of bed and always make her very happy and l am a single guy and not a player l would like to find a girl to date
I just feel as though if i do more for him maybe he’ll want to please me more.? Sometimes when we do it he finishes off and doesn’t look after my needs at all i just hope one day he cares. Its weird because he thinks i should be turned on by what i do to him and idk why he thinks that
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(Original post by Second_Beauty)
I cannot believe people are getting upset at people saying she should stop giving blowjobs if he doesn’t want to eat her. Wtf do women look like to you? Service machines? If he isn’t willing to atleast try to please her by going down, then why should she? She has that option. She’s not pressuring him if she wants the same treatment.

There are guys who’ll eat her out if she’s hygienic but she obviously cares enough about this guy to seek advice on his inability to please her.
Can i just add its not only going down, he has no passion for me. Its like he thinks it will please me if i do things for him..... it that makes sense
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(Original post by FRS500)
Bring it up with him tbh.

At the end of the day if he doesn't want to do something sexual, he don't wanna do it. Consent.
I just want him to love me more in the bedroom instead of only caring for himself if u know what i mean. Like even when we touch he wont make me finish? Why does he do that
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He sounds like a selfish ass based on your posts.

Find a man who will go down on you all night long until the water table rises.
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(Original post by bones-mccoy)
Respect his decision? You wouldn't like it if he was pressuring you to give him a blowjob when you didn't feel comfortable doing so
I dont pressure him but when it comes to ‘that’ time I obviously want to be satisfied by my partner. I just wanna know why he doesn’t wanna get me there? Are loads of guys like this? Where they dont please their partner. Like i do it because i love it and i love seeing him feel good but at some point i just wanna say i have needs too
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(Original post by Anonymous)
He sounds like a selfish ass based on your posts.

Find a man who will go down on you all night long until the water table rises.
I hope i do thank you!😂
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I just feel as though if i do more for him maybe he’ll want to please me more.? Sometimes when we do it he finishes off and doesn’t look after my needs at all i just hope one day he cares. Its weird because he thinks i should be turned on by what i do to him and idk why he thinks that
The two of you need to be talking about this matter he is wanting it all his own way
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Either he's been watching too much porn or is a selfish lover imho.

Don't pleasure him if he doesn't pleasure you; sex is a two way street
It makes me feel so ugly because I’ve grown up hating the way it looks. Sometimes i feel like no guy will actually want me because of how it looks
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(Original post by bayhouse1345)
respect him otherwise he might dump you do u want that?
Maybe i do want that. Thanks!
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(Original post by laughinglad999)
Thats not right at all if you were my girl l would love to eat you out every day and give you lots of foreplay and always make you very happy you need to get him out of your life he is no use for you he is a very selfish lover well l dont think he knows much about real true loving at all he has no real love and respect for you he wants it all his way stop giving him any more blow jobs freeze him out of your life its so sad that you are not getting any true love and sexy pleasure its so sad
Whoever your girl is or will be, is sure lucky to have you

(Original post by laughinglad999)
Thank you if l was dating a girl l would always please her in every way in bed and out of bed and always make her very happy and l am a single guy and not a player l would like to find a girl to date
Got anyone in mind?
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Got anyone in mind?
Get it gurrrrrll
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I think if you don't give oral you can't expect it back. he also has quite a negative and rude attitude for not wanting to do it, as well as making you insecure. Bet he doesn't mind looking at vaginas in porn right?
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Whoever your girl is or will be, is sure lucky to have you


Got anyone in mind?
Yes l do but l wont say who it is as she might read this l more than care about her and respect her 100%
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It makes me feel so ugly because I’ve grown up hating the way it looks. Sometimes i feel like no guy will actually want me because of how it looks
You aren't ugly at all. It's impacted your self confidence because of his negative, uncooperative attitude. Someone who cares will love to make you happy above all else rather than just going in to have their needs met day in day out and valuing intimacy regardless of shape, size, colour, etc
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Get it gurrrrrll
No can do now!!

(Original post by laughinglad999)
Yes l do but l wont say who it is as she might read this l more than care about her and respect her 100%
Wow you must really love her.
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It's more than that he doesn't want to do oral on you because that's his preference not to. He puts his own pleasure above your own, doesn't really care about your pleasure, doesn't care that he's making you insecure and has some pornsick notion that you only get pleasure out of pleasing him and expects you to please him and not have to do it in return.

So people can't say if the roles were reversed it wouldn't be a problem, because I don't think anyone would support someone who is completely selfish sexually and has some bad views and makes their partner insecure...

Also there's nothing wrong with you OP or the way you look.
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No can do now!!


Wow you must really love her.
l need to watch what l am putting down here as this is Anon l dont want any problems
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Be grateful that hes not a cannibal
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I just want him to love me more in the bedroom instead of only caring for himself if u know what i mean. Like even when we touch he wont make me finish? Why does he do that
Again, this is honestly something you can only work out in a convo with him I'm afraid.

There's defo some underlying issues and without knowing the specifics, I can't really tell you whether he's just being selfish/uncaring etc or ...
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Some people don't like to.
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