Having sex when grieving

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My dad died 2 weeks ago and someone who I was friends with benefits dad died 2 weeks ago. We’ve been in contact obviously due to supporting eachother. However isit risky to go meet him incase we have sex. I feel so bad and disrespectful to be thinking this when my dad has passed.
I have been wanting to have sex however I’ve taken out my implant ( haven’t had sex for 6months)
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My dad died 2 weeks ago and someone who I was friends with benefits dad died 2 weeks ago. We’ve been in contact obviously due to supporting eachother. However isit risky to go meet him incase we have sex. I feel so bad and disrespectful to be thinking this when my dad has passed.
I have been wanting to have sex however I’ve taken out my implant ( haven’t had sex for 6months)
if you both feel comfortable doing so, practice safe sex and aren't doing it in like a way to relieve the pain for your grief, then it's okay to be thinking about that.
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if you both feel comfortable doing so, practice safe sex and aren't doing it in like a way to relieve the pain for your grief, then it's okay to be thinking about that.
Would it be disrespectful towards my dad. I’m not sure if I’m doing it Cus I’m grieving I doubt it though because we had sex before.
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Would it be disrespectful towards my dad. I’m not sure if I’m doing it Cus I’m grieving I doubt it though because we had sex before.
everyone's grief is completely different, there's no exact right time, life will move forward whilst you're grieving and it's up to you what you do whilst you go through it.
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Really sorry for your loss

If you both want to do it, go ahead but I'd say you should use this time to perhaps figure out where you need to go from here. Sex as a coping mechanism won't always be there to ease your pain..
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If your dad died unexpectedly you may still be grieving and coming to terms with the situation so having sex with a f*cuk buddy now is not wise; you are not thinking straight. If your dad's demise was known for some time and you have had time to adjust to life without your father then you may be more psychologically stable and able to simply enjoy having sex. Since you have not had sex in 6 months it seems like a conscious decision on your part to avoid sex?
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Sex can help you ease your grief . Use other methods and have sex if you want .
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