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Today was my birthday and my family and relatives all wished me happy birthday! But none of my close friends wished me today. The worst part is yesterday was my friend's birthday and many people were posting wishes on her birthday and I am not really popular I just have group of friends and my friends whose birthday was yesterday is really popular. But it's just a birthday I don't get why none of my close friends wished anything to me. Please tell me what I should do?
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(Original post by MuskaanKS)
Today was my birthday and my family and relatives all wished me happy birthday! But none of my close friends wished me today. The worst part is yesterday was my friend's birthday and many people were posting wishes on her birthday and I am not really popular I just have group of friends and my friends whose birthday was yesterday is really popular. But it's just a birthday I don't get why none of my close friends wished anything to me. Please tell me what I should do?
just wanna say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!! hope you had an amazing day
lots of love xxx
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i’m sorry to hear it, and i’m not your close friend, but a happy birthday off us at tsr is better than none at all, right?
happy birthday!!! 🥳
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thank u so much this means a lot!!!

(Original post by ella’s words)
i’m sorry to hear it, and i’m not your close friend, but a happy birthday off us at tsr is better than none at all, right?
happy birthday!!! 🥳
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(Original post by MuskaanKS)
Today was my birthday and my family and relatives all wished me happy birthday! But none of my close friends wished me today. The worst part is yesterday was my friend's birthday and many people were posting wishes on her birthday and I am not really popular I just have group of friends and my friends whose birthday was yesterday is really popular. But it's just a birthday I don't get why none of my close friends wished anything to me. Please tell me what I should do?
I faced this situation and similar with my own friends. What did I do? I ended up cutting them all off when I realised that I was being used by them all. I'm not saying you do that as such, but I think it's worth reflecting on two things here: 1) social media is an unrealistic prism through which to view the world and friendships and 2) perhaps re-evaluate how close friends you think they are. If you're in school/college/sixth form, I guarantee you won't speak to them much if at all once you go to university, so don't worry about it.
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just wanna say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!! hope you had an amazing day
lots of love xxx
Thank you!
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I faced this situation and similar with my own friends. What did I do? I ended up cutting them all off when I realised that I was being used by them all. I'm not saying you do that as such, but I think it's worth reflecting on two things here: 1) social media is an unrealistic prism through which to view the world and friendships and 2) perhaps re-evaluate how close friends you think they are. If you're in school/college/sixth form, I guarantee you won't speak to them much if at all once you go to university, so don't worry about it.
great advice
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I faced this situation and similar with my own friends. What did I do? I ended up cutting them all off when I realised that I was being used by them all. I'm not saying you do that as such, but I think it's worth reflecting on two things here: 1) social media is an unrealistic prism through which to view the world and friendships and 2) perhaps re-evaluate how close friends you think they are. If you're in school/college/sixth form, I guarantee you won't speak to them much if at all once you go to university, so don't worry about it.
Thank you, what you said is true I really don't think the friends I have at the moment will last all through my life and I just need to be grateful and move on, and again thank you for the advice!
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(Original post by MuskaanKS)
Thank you, what you said is true I really don't think the friends I have at the moment will last all through my life and I just need to be grateful and move on, and again thank you for the advice!
It's hard coming to terms with that, but it's a useful skill in life and one I'd wish I'd learned ages ago.

Also, happy birthday!!! :birthday:
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Thank you, what you said is true I really don't think the friends I have at the moment will last all through my life and I just need to be grateful and move on, and again thank you for the advice!
Just want to say Happy Birthday from me.:hello:.This happened to my daughter and she was very hurt but this year at uni she was out celebrating with all her new friends.Do not let these petty people get to you.They are so not worth it!
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(Original post by MuskaanKS)
Today was my birthday and my family and relatives all wished me happy birthday! But none of my close friends wished me today. The worst part is yesterday was my friend's birthday and many people were posting wishes on her birthday and I am not really popular I just have group of friends and my friends whose birthday was yesterday is really popular. But it's just a birthday I don't get why none of my close friends wished anything to me. Please tell me what I should do?
Happy Birthday!!
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Well, here, have one from a random stranger, happy birthday!
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Happy birthday! I hope your day was amazing, regardless of your friends forgetfulness :hugs:
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(Original post by MuskaanKS)
Today was my birthday and my family and relatives all wished me happy birthday! But none of my close friends wished me today. The worst part is yesterday was my friend's birthday and many people were posting wishes on her birthday and I am not really popular I just have group of friends and my friends whose birthday was yesterday is really popular. But it's just a birthday I don't get why none of my close friends wished anything to me. Please tell me what I should do?
I hope your alright, andddd HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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Happy birthday :jumphug:
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