Do you believe that everyone deserves forgiveness?Watch
I don't think everyone deserves it but you deserve it to yourself. A grudge is a heavy feeling, so forgiveness isn't necessarily always for the person who has done you wrong, forgiveness is for your peace of mind too. And forgiveness doesn't always mean reconnection, you can forgive someone and you can always cut them off
I knew someone for over 10 years, we were very close friends. Had an argument where he disagreed with my opinion and was being really overly emotional. I put up with his emotional outages for years and years. He texted me after I left saying I'm a vicious person and him and his gf proceeded to unfriend me on all social media.
It was almost like an insult to the core for me. Like an insult to my very being and who I am as a person, a pure lie. Reason is I have never, nor will I ever, hurt someone else. It is simply not in my nature and he should know that.
About 6 or 7 years later he messaged me on social media saying he was sorry and that he was an ass...
I don't forgive someone when you have been close friends for such a long long time and knows you so well, and the person insults you so deeply. Simply have no time for that drama **** at all.