Can’t get pregnant

So I’m 22 years old but I’m not married yet and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and he wants to have kids and we’ve been trying over and over again and I can’t get pregnant at all and sometimes I feel like I’m not functioning as a woman properly and it makes me upset and depressed and I look at all of these women with their babies in public and how cute they are and I just don’t understand why that can’t be me. I easily get jealous of all of the women that are fertile and can get pregnant very easily and I defiantly don’t want to do the adoption because I want a child that comes from me. And if I adopt a baby it’s not going to feel right and it’s going to make me feel very uncomfortable because that’s someone else’s baby and not mine if I were to adopt but I don’t want that because I want a baby that’s my DNA and a baby that comes from me. I just wanna have the ability to make babies but my body is just so weird and messed up and I hate it and it makes me feel depressed. I wanna be fertile please help.

So I’m 22 years old but I’m not married yet and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and he wants to have kids and we’ve been trying over and over again and I can’t get pregnant at all and sometimes I feel like I’m not functioning as a woman properly and it makes me upset and depressed and I look at all of these women with their babies in public and how cute they are and I just don’t understand why that can’t be me. I easily get jealous of all of the women that are fertile and can get pregnant very easily and I defiantly don’t want to do the adoption because I want a child that comes from me. And if I adopt a baby it’s not going to feel right and it’s going to make me feel very uncomfortable because that’s someone else’s baby and not mine if I were to adopt but I don’t want that because I want a baby that’s my DNA and a baby that comes from me. I just wanna have the ability to make babies but my body is just so weird and messed up and I hate it and it makes me feel depressed. I wanna be fertile please help.

Don’t panic. Go and see the GP they will give some advice and likely refer you BOTH for investigation. There’s lots that can be done and it’s often not that difficult.

So some questions that may help:
1. are your periods regular and how long is your cycle?
2. have you used the home ovulation (LH) tests?
3. are you having regular sex?

My cycle is every 40 days which doesn’t seem normal.

So I’m 22 years old but I’m not married yet and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and he wants to have kids and we’ve been trying over and over again and I can’t get pregnant at all and sometimes I feel like I’m not functioning as a woman properly and it makes me upset and depressed and I look at all of these women with their babies in public and how cute they are and I just don’t understand why that can’t be me. I easily get jealous of all of the women that are fertile and can get pregnant very easily and I defiantly don’t want to do the adoption because I want a child that comes from me. And if I adopt a baby it’s not going to feel right and it’s going to make me feel very uncomfortable because that’s someone else’s baby and not mine if I were to adopt but I don’t want that because I want a baby that’s my DNA and a baby that comes from me. I just wanna have the ability to make babies but my body is just so weird and messed up and I hate it and it makes me feel depressed. I wanna be fertile please help.

No, not normal. I'd get some LH tests and see if (and when) in your cycle you are ovulating:

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/30-Ovulation-Tests-Ultra-Sensitive-LH-Urine-Strips-Test-Kits-Fertility/310924109310?epid=1204535249&hash=item48648565fe:g:r-wAAOSwgyxWXDXw

Usually start around 10 days after your last period.

Are you a healthy weight? Not on any medication?

You seem to want to have the baby for him and the whole situation seems off. I can’t believe people aren’t reading between the lines and they’re helping you make a big mistake.

So I’m 22 years old but I’m not married yet and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and he wants to have kids and we’ve been trying over and over again and I can’t get pregnant at all and sometimes I feel like I’m not functioning as a woman properly and it makes me upset and depressed and I look at all of these women with their babies in public and how cute they are and I just don’t understand why that can’t be me. I easily get jealous of all of the women that are fertile and can get pregnant very easily and I defiantly don’t want to do the adoption because I want a child that comes from me. And if I adopt a baby it’s not going to feel right and it’s going to make me feel very uncomfortable because that’s someone else’s baby and not mine if I were to adopt but I don’t want that because I want a baby that’s my DNA and a baby that comes from me. I just wanna have the ability to make babies but my body is just so weird and messed up and I hate it and it makes me feel depressed. I wanna be fertile please help.