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    Just don't put your face in it... solves the problem of awkward faces AND blackmail.

    Although that might look a bit odd. Maybe some kind of paper bag is in order? Hm...
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    If you want to try doing one, try without your face in - makes it an awful lot harder to identify as you if it gets out. I've sent out a fair few to boyfriends over the past few years and it's never backfired yet *touchwood*.
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    My boyfriend's got stuff of me :ninjagirl: and i'd send him more stuff. But then again i totally trust him and i know he'd never show anyone else
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    keep your face out of the shot. simple.
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    Seriously, your bf could be the most loyal guy ever, but all it takes is one momentary lapse, a quick row, a few pints, anything, and one click can keep it there to haunt you for years
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    Id be worried about what he thought of faces and stuff too.

    Also I'd be worried if anyone else would see it. I mean even if he doesnt show it to anyone, what if one of his mates are browsing thro his documents, or his fingers slips when sending something to someone and he sends that instead.

    Homemade porn = Risky business.
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    Unless you really care about each other and are visually appealing, I guess it's a bad idea.

    It's a big risk that could end up creating a divide between you both.
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    Urghh..
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    I would most likely be incapacitated by fits of laughter. :p:
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    This is a recipe for disaster. When you break up, that video's going all over the net.
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    Also, if you were the girl would you feel paranoid that they guy would be like 'er, gross. shes crud at this, look at her stupid faces. hahhahahah' and then show all your mates?
    Wtf!? Who would actually be with someone who was such a ****?

    I trust and love my boyfriend. Yes, sending him homemade porn might worry me - will he like it? Do I do it well? Am I sexy enough? - but not because I think he might show his mates. He isn't a ****, oddly enough.

    I would consider sending him some, if I thought he would appreciate it.
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    I would appreciate it but I do think you need to be very careful. Does it have to be that explicit? I don't think nude photographs would pose such problems as might arise from a video.
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    I don't think I'd want to see it. It'd be weird. Why do you think I close my eyes during sex?
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    (Original post by FireDeuce)
    Don't do it, you are guaranteed someone else will see it, who will tell someone else, who will also see it.
    The possibility for disaster is HUGE.
    And you may well say 'I trust my boyfriend'.. you NEVER know what people can turn into.

    i fail to see that garuntee, my gf made a video of herself and several more since over the course of 4 years and no one has ever seen them bar me and her
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    if you ever become anything eminent and distinguished then you're career is finished as these things always find their way to the public.
    only do it if your happy with the possibility that the whole world will see it!
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    (Original post by shamrock92)


    He could show it to his mates. Even if there's a 1-5% chance of it happening, the possible consequences negate that.
    Prob would happen too, "come check out my gf"

    *shows mate*

    Other guy: "shes fit" :rolleyes:
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    Troll troll troll - but very funny thread.

    Personally I find it disgusting :P and I doubt she was really comfortable doing that. I'd say thank you, but no thank you - and perhaps tell her she didn't need to do that, and you didn't want another vid.

    Then again, I just posted an opinion on a troll
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    Some guy I used to be with sent me nude shots of him once and even though I thought I was a nice, loyal, not cruel person I sent them to one person (after we had broken up, obviously) as a "lol look at his penis" type thing and within a week the entire school had the photos and there were tears and drama. So if you're the one planning on sending the photos, I probably... wouldn't. They'll get out eventually, and I don't think you want that.
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    I personally think you don't need to send your boyfriend something like that to show you love him. Especially if you're not comfortable with it. There are a million potential negative consequences that outweigh the benefits and this is just me in particular but I think it's cheap. Each to their own though.
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    use it to blackmail her if you break up/she becomes famous
 
 
 
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