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Uncircumcised: How do you masturbate

I recently found out I’ve been masturbating wrong my entire life according to my friends. I masturbated by doing C) however after chatting to friends randomly about it and research I found out I had a mild case of phismosis and a short frenulum. After 17 years I had no clue the foreskin was meant to retract I thought it wasn’t permanently meant to cover the head. Very dumb of me but I guess single mum parent so I was never given the talk.
After 2 months of stretching I’m now able to retract my foreskin whilst erect, however my tight frenulum causes my penis to bend downwards when the foreskin is retracted and so naturally pulls the foreskin back over the head.

Now I’m able to pull my foreskin backwards To those uncircumcised, how do you masturbate?

A) place your hand on your foreskin and pull it back and forth (over the glands)
B) pull your foreskin back and rub the head/glands of the penis directly (if so with or without lube?)
C) leave your foreskin covering the head whilst your rub up and down (without pulling the foreskin back)


Thanks
Original post by Anonymous
I recently found out I’ve been masturbating wrong my entire life according to my friends. I masturbated by doing C) however after chatting to friends randomly about it and research I found out I had a mild case of phismosis and a short frenulum. After 17 years I had no clue the foreskin was meant to retract I thought it wasn’t permanently meant to cover the head. Very dumb of me but I guess single mum parent so I was never given the talk.
After 2 months of stretching I’m now able to retract my foreskin whilst erect, however my tight frenulum causes my penis to bend downwards when the foreskin is retracted and so naturally pulls the foreskin back over the head.

Now I’m able to pull my foreskin backwards To those uncircumcised, how do you masturbate?

A) place your hand on your foreskin and pull it back and forth (over the glands)
B) pull your foreskin back and rub the head/glands of the penis directly (if so with or without lube?)
C) leave your foreskin covering the head whilst your rub up and down (without pulling the foreskin back)


Thanks

Well, you have two options.

1. if your foreskin can move freely now then hold the foreskin at the bulb of the penis and gently pull it back and forth over the bulb. This action will become more frantic and vigorous as you approach climax to the point where you stretch the entire foreskin back and orgasm.

2. if your foreskin is too tight and cannot move freely back and forth over the bulb then I suggest you pull the foreskin back and use your fingers to gently rub what is referred to as the 'edge' of the bulb (not to be confused with rim). Its the region around the base of the bulb with the little goosebumps on it. These goosebumps are very sensitive so by gently rubbing and stimulating them you will come. A couple of drops of baby oil on your fingers to help lubricate will increase the pleasure.
I had the exact same issue mate, in the beginning when I couldn't pull it back I used the shower hose with the jet setting but now I use option a
Just watch a bit of porn to give u an example
Original post by Anonymous
Well, you have two options.

1. if your foreskin can move freely now then hold the foreskin at the bulb of the penis and gently pull it back and forth over the bulb. This action will become more frantic and vigorous as you approach climax to the point where you stretch the entire foreskin back and orgasm.

2. if your foreskin is too tight and cannot move freely back and forth over the bulb then I suggest you pull the foreskin back and use your fingers to gently rub what is referred to as the 'edge' of the bulb (not to be confused with rim). Its the region around the base of the bulb with the little goosebumps on it. These goosebumps are very sensitive so by gently rubbing and stimulating them you will come. A couple of drops of baby oil on your fingers to help lubricate will increase the pleasure.


I'm really surprised that so many young males on this forum have the same problem - I thought our sex-ed was better than this. However, no judging! Use some moisturiser on your foreskin while you're still soft and then retract it as if you were going for a pee. As you get harder, the skin will stretch naturally. Within a few weeks (and if you keep at it), you should be able to retract while erect as the foreskin and frenulum ("banjo string") will have stretched sufficiently.

The glans is the most sensitive part of your penis. There's no right or wrong way to masturbate - it's just really how quickly you want to finish. The more direct contact with the glans, the faster it'll be. However, masturbation isn't just about the ****. You have loads of other erogenous zones around there - scrotum, stomach, taint, and even ass. It's all down to whatever feels good for you.
Both my brother and my boyfriend had phimosis, however my boyfriend managed to help his by gently stretching his foreskin. You'll want to do this before having sex because you'll need to pull it back to have sex or else you'll be in pain. I would recommend against circumcision; my brother had this when he was very young and he regrets it.
Try gently stretching the foreskin over your head, and you can also buy a cream to help this from your GP. I would recommend seeing your GP regardless, however.
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May I ask why your brother regrets the circumcision?Thank you
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Original post by Lazarus38
I'm really surprised that so many young males on this forum have the same problem - I thought our sex-ed was better than this. However, no judging! Use some moisturiser on your foreskin while you're still soft and then retract it as if you were going for a pee. As you get harder, the skin will stretch naturally. Within a few weeks (and if you keep at it), you should be able to retract while erect as the foreskin and frenulum ("banjo string") will have stretched sufficiently.

The glans is the most sensitive part of your penis. There's no right or wrong way to masturbate - it's just really how quickly you want to finish. The more direct contact with the glans, the faster it'll be. However, masturbation isn't just about the ****. You have loads of other erogenous zones around there - scrotum, stomach, taint, and even ass. It's all down to whatever feels good for you.

Hey man so yeah I have the same problem like it only goes back a little then it hurts or whatever. You said put moisture. What kind of moisture. Also put it on the outside of the foreskin before I’m about to get hard?
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Original post by Lazarus38
I'm really surprised that so many young males on this forum have the same problem - I thought our sex-ed was better than this. However, no judging! Use some moisturiser on your foreskin while you're still soft and then retract it as if you were going for a pee. As you get harder, the skin will stretch naturally. Within a few weeks (and if you keep at it), you should be able to retract while erect as the foreskin and frenulum (
If u want a fast session C is your best option but for better orgasm I think option A but with lube reason being, when use lubricant you last longer but feels amazing and a longer session equals a better and harder orgasm.
My other half has a completely non-retracting foreskin. It doesn't retract at all, not even a little bit. He doesn't even attempt to retract it, it would be impossible. It doesn't cause him any pain though.
Original post by Anonymous
My other half has a completely non-retracting foreskin. It doesn't retract at all, not even a little bit. He doesn't even attempt to retract it, it would be impossible. It doesn't cause him any pain though.

He ought to get it looked at. A tight foreskin can cause problems further down the line and also be unhygienic.
Original post by 135Peter
He ought to get it looked at. A tight foreskin can cause problems further down the line and also be unhygienic.

He's not young, so unless it'll cause problems when he's an elderly man, he's probably ok.
I don't think that the idea of it not being normal has ever even crossed his mind.
Original post by A person1562
Just watch a bit of porn to give u an example


Say no to porn. This is staged performance.
Pull the foreskin how far back? Mines tight do I pull it all the way down?
Original post by Anonymous
I recently found out I’ve been masturbating wrong my entire life according to my friends. I masturbated by doing C) however after chatting to friends randomly about it and research I found out I had a mild case of phismosis and a short frenulum. After 17 years I had no clue the foreskin was meant to retract I thought it wasn’t permanently meant to cover the head. Very dumb of me but I guess single mum parent so I was never given the talk.
After 2 months of stretching I’m now able to retract my foreskin whilst erect, however my tight frenulum causes my penis to bend downwards when the foreskin is retracted and so naturally pulls the foreskin back over the head.

Now I’m able to pull my foreskin backwards To those uncircumcised, how do you masturbate?

A) place your hand on your foreskin and pull it back and forth (over the glands)
B) pull your foreskin back and rub the head/glands of the penis directly (if so with or without lube?)
C) leave your foreskin covering the head whilst your rub up and down (without pulling the foreskin back)


Thanks


Can't imagine not pulling Foreskin back! Wow. I wasn't Circumcised till my teens.I remember the smegma smell and often the glans were wet. Probably urine.. Pretty nasty! Glans were often purple and bright red and very sore.. Unless you washed the glans after urination
We all know that's impossible to do! Circumcision was the best thing I ever did! Solved all my penis problems!

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