i had 3 friends who were like my best mates until the start of my GCSEs when i stopped hanging out with them and started revising soooooo much for my GCSEs, going to the library with another two friends and the 4 guys didnt revise that much and when GCSEs finished they were like to me why were'nt you hanging out with us, always going to the library and they said i was trying to be someone im not which confused me a lot. I've only seen them like twice during the summer holidays, and both times they've told me to come to their area and 'jam' with them and twice i've said no thus ****ing up our friendship even more. also i feel they are a bad influence on me and they are going to my 6th form, so if any of you guys could give me adivce on how to deal with this situation and any other helpful advice would be much appreciated.
thanks in advance guys
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- Thread Starter
- 26-08-2008 16:31
- 26-08-2008 17:26
Hang with them and stay on top of your studies?
You should text them and say lets meet up cause to be honest it seems like you are neglecting them
Of course it was fine to revise lots and tell them you was in the library cause you wanted to revise and get good grades , if they bust your balls over this then just laugh it off.... mates bust each others balls all the time so its just a jokey thing not to worry about
but if you are really really worreid that they wil mess up your chances at 6th form then break some contact and move on to other people you are friendly with in your 6thform classes
- 26-08-2008 17:28
Well... I think the real question is: do you want to be friends with them or not?