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    what exactly is it youre worried about?
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    just take it one step at a time it isnt really in your control just keep him sweet......whatever you do dont start asking him stuff like where have you been and who have you been with that will just cause arguments just keep things chilled and just sit back and breath and relax it actually works...trust me....
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    no matter what people say, EVERYONE gets jealous.

    You just need to think if he didn't want you, he wouldn't be with you.

    More of a 'whatever happens, happens for a reason' approach..
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    (Original post by sarzbabe)
    no matter what people say, EVERYONE gets jealous.

    Not true, i find it a horrible trait in a partner, mainly because I just don't get jealous, don't know why, but there we go.

    OP, just don't let him know you feel like it, and if you see something you think is gonna get you wound up just ignore it, and relax a little - most things generally have a more logical conclusion. My best friend used to be the insane jealous type, but she eventually started looking at things in a far more rational manner and now she's not the jealous type at all.
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    jealousy is green so is grass. Grass is eaten by cows. Cows live in sheds. Sheds are found in gardens. Gardens have lawns. Lawns have grass. Grass is green so is jealousy.

    I just made a circle of jealousy woop -

    YP I'm afraid, you'll have to figure out your stuff for yourself duck, you know what you're on with. Just erm, do stuff you know like that.

    Advice: Never insult Russell Crowe, he may beat you up.
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    (Original post by sarzbabe)
    no matter what people say, EVERYONE gets jealous.
    I agree with this, everyone feels it, but differ on how they deal with it. (such words made me feel better when going through a jealous moment myself :o: )

    Do as someone else here said, be calm and collected. Take a look at it from someone else's perspective, hope you feel better and happier.
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    Don't use Facebook?

    It can help. ^^
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    aww babe i think you're just being a little over paranoid, i think perhaps this is a phase ur going through because you're feeling a little low and perhaps a bit too worried. if you're boyfriend didn't like you, he would have broken up with you already and it just shows how much he likes you when he didnt break it off after that rough patch you guys had. seriously i agree with the other posters of not starting off the whole 'where have you been?', 'who have you been with?', because that would make matters a little worse.
    hope you all the best
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    Showing your jealousy kind of shows you know what a good thing you have - you know he's great, so you're anticipating other girls are going to see and act on that too. But is part of your jealousy also the idea that HE might find other girls attractive and want to act on it? It's just you said in your OP that you "don't trust other people around him".
 
 
 
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