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Hi Im a guy.. age 23. I am playing two girls at the same time. I don't know which one I like better. I don't know how to find out. Some days I like one more than the other, and vice-versa. I have spent a lot of time talking and chilling with both of them. I have been been sexually active with both of them. I just don't know what is going!!

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I think you should be honest with them and make sure they both know that each other exists. Casual sex is ok imo, but honesty and trust is important in any kind of sexual relationship. Ideally you would have told both of them about this right at the start
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Do they know about each other...?
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(Original post by Laurence010401)
I think you should be honest with them and make sure they both know that each other exists. Casual sex is ok imo, but honesty and trust is important in any kind of sexual relationship. Ideally you would have told both of them about this right at the start
Both of them that each other exist, however they don't know each others name. It is not really casual sex, as both want a relationship and I have told both of them I like them. Thats why I am confused.
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Do they know about each other...?
Yeah however they dont know each others name. What are your thoughts Lovely Mr Fox
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Both of them that each other exist, however they don't know each others name. It is not really casual sex, as both want a relationship and I have told both of them I like them. Thats why I am confused.
They might start being like love island girls an insist that you make your mind up.
just keep being honest with both of them about how you feel 😊
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Yeah however they dont know each others name. What are your thoughts Lovely Mr Fox
Do they both know that your in a sexual relationship with the other?
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My first thought is that both of these girls are being treated like **** by you, secondly that you should leave them both.
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(Original post by Laurence010401)
They might start being like love island girls an insist that you make your mind up.
just keep being honest with both of them about how you feel 😊
I dont watch love island so I wouldnt understand that reference.
Yeah but I cant be unsure but I dont know how to pick 1 as I cant be switching whenever I want.
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Advice on how to prevent that then? I want to hear the angelic roarrrr
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I dont watch love island so I wouldnt understand that reference.
Yeah but I cant be unsure but I dont know how to pick 1 as I cant be switching whenever I want.
Oh sorry, well basically they might want you to make your mind up at some point.
Would you perhaps be more comfortable just staying in a relationship with both of them? As long as they are both comfortable with that
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My first thought is that both of these girls are being treated like **** by you, secondly that you should leave them both.
I know...They know they the other exists however both of these girls are telling me to decide who I want and stick to 1. However I can't make up my mind...
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Do they both know that your in a sexual relationship with the other?
They know I am on and off with the other as I am always honest
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I know...They know they the other exists however both of these girls are telling me to decide who I want and stick to 1. However I can't make up my mind...
Ohhhh they already want you to choose one of them.
It might be best for you to choose neither of them and begin looking elsewhere for sex partners / a girlfriend
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I know...They know they the other exists however both of these girls are telling me to decide who I want and stick to 1. However I can't make up my mind...
You should choose the better version of yourself that doesn't do this kind of **** or starts relationships that began because you were forced into a corner because you didn't know how to keep it in your pants.
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They know I am on and off with the other as I am always honest
Would you want to be in an open relationship with both of them? Would they be interested in that...?
Otherwise I would leave them both. Its not fair to either of them.
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Yeah but the problem is I know that, however I don't know which one to go for... any advice on that?

That's a bit smooth...
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(Original post by Laurence010401)
Oh sorry, well basically they might want you to make your mind up at some point.
Would you perhaps be more comfortable just staying in a relationship with both of them? As long as they are both comfortable with that
Yeah they want that. No loool bro I wish I could have a 3sum but they wouldnt both want to get in a relationship with me as they wouldnt want to share me.
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You should choose the better version of yourself that doesn't do this kind of **** or starts relationships that began because you were forced into a corner because you didn't know how to keep it in your pants.
It was because I was on and off with 1 girl, and didnt speak to her for 3 months in the mean time the 2nd girl came into my life.
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Would you want to be in an open relationship with both of them? Would they be interested in that...?
Otherwise I would leave them both. Its not fair to either of them.
No they arent willing for that. How do I leave them both... as some days I like one more than the other, and vice-versa as I said in my first post.
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