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So my bff is just on her phone too damn much. Whenever she comes over too much time is spent on phones and whenever i try to start a convo it just doesnt work. I miss long convos with friends over nothing. I just wanna chat **** for hours and hours upon end but i cantttt. Whenever i mention sarcastically how i 'love that we are on our phones' she wudnt catch the sarcasm and wud literally agree w me. Honestly if i wanted to be on my damn phone scrolling ig, i wudve done it on my own. Obviously if its a long day its nice to take a break from talking but once she arrives - boom, phone. Am i ***** for thinking this? Or is this even normal to think this? Do u guys have friends that are on phones too much?
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Just be direct with her? And nah, when I'm with my friends we are usually talking **** about various things.
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I used to be that friend, then I realised that I was being that friend too much, now I hardly use my phone when I’m with friends

In addition to asking the TSR community, you should directly pick this bone with your friend
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Just be direct with her? And nah, when I'm with my friends we are usually talking **** about various things.
Wow i am jelly. I just want her to put her damn phone down
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Grab the phone off her and stick it in the blender.

Boom. Problem solved.
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I used to be that friend, then I realised that I was being that friend too much, now I hardly use my phone when I’m with friends

In addition to asking the TSR community, you should directly pick this bone with your friend
I will defo try. I was wondering, was this something that ur friends ever pointed out to u? How did u come to this realisation?
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I will defo try. I was wondering, was this something that ur friends ever pointed out to u? How did u come to this realisation?
No they didn’t point it out
I realised myself, I started to be enlightened to the fact that I wasn’t taking proper notice of them and stuff
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Wow i am jelly. I just want her to put her damn phone down
:dontknow: If you're younger, things are different. I'm in my mid-20s, we spent most of our childhoods not using phones if we were with people - doesn't mean to say I don't use my phone around my friends at all though, or vice versa. But constantly? I find that rude tbh.
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Grab the phone off her and stick it in the blender.

Boom. Problem solved.
Dont think i would have a friend if i did that but i have definately thought it
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Honestly just have a chat with her. She probably doesn’t even realise it bothers you so much.
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Grab the phone off her and stick it in the blender.

Boom. Problem solved.
In return loose a friend.
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(Original post by nognogbumfluff)
So my bff is just on her phone too damn much. Whenever she comes over too much time is spent on phones and whenever i try to start a convo it just doesnt work. I miss long convos with friends over nothing. I just wanna chat **** for hours and hours upon end but i cantttt. Whenever i mention sarcastically how i 'love that we are on our phones' she wudnt catch the sarcasm and wud literally agree w me. Honestly if i wanted to be on my damn phone scrolling ig, i wudve done it on my own. Obviously if its a long day its nice to take a break from talking but once she arrives - boom, phone. Am i ***** for thinking this? Or is this even normal to think this? Do u guys have friends that are on phones too much?
You sound like fun to be around. It’s not that big of a deal. And you can just be straight up with her and say something since you’re BFFs.
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:console:
Does she have access to your wifi/internet? Though I'm guessing she's using data.
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Tell her how it makes you feel.
You cannot expect her to change if she doesnt even know it bothers you.
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In return loose a friend.
Worth it
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