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This girl i was speaking to ignored me for no reason but i do really like her and not sure what to do... any advice?
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We need more context.
Did she ignore you over text? Did she leave you on delivered, or seen? How long have you known her?
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If she ignored you don’t you feel offended ?
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
We need more context.
Did she ignore you over text? Did she leave you on delivered, or seen? How long have you known her?
Left me on seen on Snapchat... known her for a few week
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Left me on seen on Snapchat... known her for a few week
What have your conversations been like? Have you said something she might have not liked?
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She probably isn’t interested mate
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Left me on seen on Snapchat... known her for a few week
Shes probably not interested then.
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You may try again and again to grab her attention but in the end if she still does not show any interest in you then she is probably not interested in you. If you really like or love her just this on her face.
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Legit if i aint asking her a question I don’t get a response haha
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This girl i was speaking to ignored me for no reason but i do really like her and not sure what to do... any advice?
If she can't respond interestingly or show a healthy interest in you, then perhaps she's not worth liking? I know that's obviously a little tricky to control, but for me it's a massive turn-off when the other person can't communicate enthusiastically or engagingly and expects me to carry the whole conversation. The harsh reality is probably that she just doesn't really think of you often enough to get around to messaging.

Look elsewhere.
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Take it as a sign that the feeling is not mutual and leave her alone.
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If she can't respond interestingly or show a healthy interest in you, then perhaps she's not worth liking? I know that's obviously a little tricky to control, but for me it's a massive turn-off when the other person can't communicate enthusiastically or engagingly and expects me to carry the whole conversation. The harsh reality is probably that she just doesn't really think of you often enough to get around to messaging.

Look elsewhere.
I’ve literally just messaged her with the below. I’m a **** for doing doin it but ud rather her tell me then just give me hints haha.


I’m obviously stupid enough to ignore the hints but for some reason i am attracted to ya and I’m probably making a **** of myself. Where’s your head at with me wanting to speak to you? If you ain’t interested then just tell us I won’t be offended haha
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Did you break her heart where you talking with any other girls ? she ignored you for a good reason cant you message her ?
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I’ve literally just messaged her with the below. I’m a **** for doing doin it but ud rather her tell me then just give me hints haha.


I’m obviously stupid enough to ignore the hints but for some reason i am attracted to ya and I’m probably making a **** of myself. Where’s your head at with me wanting to speak to you? If you ain’t interested then just tell us I won’t be offended haha
I honestly admire your candidness. Definitely the best way to bring the situation to a conclusion so you can move on with life.
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I’ve literally just messaged her with the below. I’m a **** for doing doin it but ud rather her tell me then just give me hints haha.


I’m obviously stupid enough to ignore the hints but for some reason i am attracted to ya and I’m probably making a **** of myself. Where’s your head at with me wanting to speak to you? If you ain’t interested then just tell us I won’t be offended haha
That's actually a rather commendable approach, saves some headaches. Hopefully she's as honest and up front with you as you've just been with her
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Dude, why are you going on a forum to speak about this girl you've only known for a few weeks. She's probably scared cause you're coming on too strong. I think the fact that you came on this forum to speak about it rather than going to friends shows that you are a bit too keen (my personal opinion) and that might show in your messages to her. Maybe lay off her for a bit and let her come to you. If she doesn't then at least you know that she wasn't that interested. Play it cool bruh.
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Being ignored by someone you like is never going to feel nice but you can’t force them to be interested. If they wanted to talk, they’d have replied. I’ve had guys talk to me for months and then ignore me out of the blue so I wouldn’t worry about a couple of weeks.
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Tbh bro if you offended her she probably would have blocked you, so maybe she’s kindly trying to show she isn’t interested or something
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That's actually a rather commendable approach, saves some headaches. Hopefully she's as honest and up front with you as you've just been with her
Lol it somehow worked... she said her replies are bad for everyone but said it wouldn’t be fair to not give it a chance
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Lol it somehow worked... she said her replies are bad for everyone but said it wouldn’t be fair to not give it a chance
As I expected, if you don't say what you want you stand a zero percent chance of getting it. Things right now are looking hopeful for you which is good
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