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I think I enjoy being alone and isolating myself far too much that it’s kind of not good for me. The moment I make plans with anyone, I regret it and I’ll go to great lengths to make excuses not to go! I hate being asked to meet up. I avoid making new friendships or socialising bc I just want to be alone like constantly. I can’t stand the thought of being with other people for long periods of time. Is anyone else like this, am I a bad person? I feel like I’m ruining my friendships and relationships because of this.
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I think I enjoy being alone and isolating myself far too much that it’s kind of not good for me. The moment I make plans with anyone, I regret it and I’ll go to great lengths to make excuses not to go! I hate being asked to meet up. I avoid making new friendships or socialising bc I just want to be alone like constantly. I can’t stand the thought of being with other people for long periods of time. Is anyone else like this, am I a bad person? I feel like I’m ruining my friendships and relationships because of this.
hey, no I don't think you're a bad person at all everyone has their own preferences and if you prefer to be alone that's absolutely fine, I know a lot of people that are like that so don't feel too down about yourself. There's this 16 personality test that u can do online for free maybe try that and read about your personality type a little it has sections on maintaining friendships as well it may help you.
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your an introvert. theres nothing wrong with that. some people are 'life of the party' and others like to read a book and sip some tea, whichever you are thats just you. you are not a bad person. OR maybe you could be suffering from some depression? just an idea.
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I think I enjoy being alone and isolating myself far too much that it’s kind of not good for me. The moment I make plans with anyone, I regret it and I’ll go to great lengths to make excuses not to go! I hate being asked to meet up. I avoid making new friendships or socialising bc I just want to be alone like constantly. I can’t stand the thought of being with other people for long periods of time. Is anyone else like this, am I a bad person? I feel like I’m ruining my friendships and relationships because of this.
When I read your post I thought that it's me and then I released that I ve never wrote a post about this. You are not a bad person, and believe me you will ruin your friendships and your relationships when you will start to lie and force yourself being with them. On the other hand, If they are your real friends they will understand you and support you !
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I think I enjoy being alone and isolating myself far too much that it’s kind of not good for me. The moment I make plans with anyone, I regret it and I’ll go to great lengths to make excuses not to go! I hate being asked to meet up. I avoid making new friendships or socialising bc I just want to be alone like constantly. I can’t stand the thought of being with other people for long periods of time. Is anyone else like this, am I a bad person? I feel like I’m ruining my friendships and relationships because of this.
I'm so much like you I've been trying to improve my social skills by posting on TSR.. I don't think you are a bad person, but it can be hard to make new friends when you move somewhere. I think it would be good for you try to socialise a bit if you think that it is not good for you. I understand the impulse of trying to isolate yourself but remember by flaking on your friends they may stop inviting you places when they realize that you will flake on them. Good Luck with everything!
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I think I enjoy being alone and isolating myself far too much that it’s kind of not good for me. The moment I make plans with anyone, I regret it and I’ll go to great lengths to make excuses not to go! I hate being asked to meet up. I avoid making new friendships or socialising bc I just want to be alone like constantly. I can’t stand the thought of being with other people for long periods of time. Is anyone else like this, am I a bad person? I feel like I’m ruining my friendships and relationships because of this.
lol I also like my own company and there's nothing wrong with that! do whatever makes you happy uno
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