my boyfriend said he likes girls with low self esteem?

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RED FLAG
get out of there.
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This is super messed up, and a massive red flag. Break up with his ass, he's definitely manipulative. Also, massive kudos for flagging this up and taking it seriously. Don't let him talk you out of it.
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That's really messed up.
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Ew. Throw him to the curb.
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That's better than him being a [email protected]
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Throw him in the bin. Why the **** would you even say that. Guy has massive issues.
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I guess he doesn't respect you very much, and what did he mean by "he always goes for girls with low self esteem"? You've been together since 15, so did he date a lot before that, or he's constantly trying his luck with other girls as well?
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Steer clear.
He literally admitted to being a predator, I'm suprised you even call him your boyfriend after that
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Predator alert...
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that definitly means he started dating u while u were going through something. he waits to take his prey when its most vaulnerable. u should leave him. i would, despite being together so long, because even if its been a while , if he shows signs like saying stuff like that better to leave then to waste your life on a man who is like that. just my opinion.
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It's more than one comment, though. Your whole relationship is not based on him finding someone compatible and being loving and caring towards you; he chose you for the fact that he thinks he can manipulate you and not put the effort in because you'll be so grateful for having a boyfriend.

He's toxic and controlling. Get rid, now.
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This sounds really awful but perhaps the reason he feels like that is that they’re more approachable which sounds like he isn’t very confident either so he’d find it easier.

if you’ve been together four years then there’s something good here.
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You are being silly to ruin something good bc of this, I get the feeling he’s worded it wrong.
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I think it's a bit much to break up after that one comment tbh,

does he beat you?
does he mistreat you?

or is the relationship fine apart from that one thing?

people on TSR like to shout "dump him" for just about anything, but honestly .. if it was just that one comment and nothing else I doubt most of these people saying "dump him" would actually go through and do it with their boyfriend of 4+ years
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You've posted this without context and of course TSRers are going to shout "break up" at anything even if it is something nuanced and complex. Don't throw away a 4 year relationship over this. Maybe ask him to clarify what he meant. The statement itself doesn't mean he's predatory. It might just be that he finds self-confident girls a little stuck up or hard to get with all together.

It's not like he said "yeah I love preying on vulnerable women, abusing them, and ruining their lives" everyone calm down lol.
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This is so messed up
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tf is wrong with ur ex
u should have exposed him
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