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This girl said yes to a date and planned on doing it when she is next in the country. She then didnt reply to my next message (i think i said home alone is good because she said she’d nevee seen it).

Should i ask her why she ignored me or whether she said yes because she didn’t want to say no?

Or should i message her again tomorrow asking when she is back in the country?
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Maybe message her and ask how she is etc and then lead into asking when she is back? Just asking if she is back seems quite forceful
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No, don't ask her that. You'll come across as accusatory (for suggesting she's ignoring you) and insecure (for seeking reassurance she's interested when she's already agreed to go out with you) and potentially scare her off before you've even had a chance with her.

It doesn't sound like your message necessarily needed a reply. It's likely she didn't have anything to say in response to it rather than her ignoring you.

If she said yes to a date, just wait for her to return home and you can plan it then.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This girl said yes to a date and planned on doing it when she is next in the country. She then didnt reply to my next message (i think i said home alone is good because she said she’d nevee seen it).

Should i ask her why she ignored me or whether she said yes because she didn’t want to say no?

Or should i message her again tomorrow asking when she is back in the country?
She may have lost interest in you or she may have simply not seen your message.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This girl said yes to a date and planned on doing it when she is next in the country. She then didnt reply to my next message (i think i said home alone is good because she said she’d nevee seen it).

Should i ask her why she ignored me or whether she said yes because she didn’t want to say no?

Or should i message her again tomorrow asking when she is back in the country?
Hey friend I think its better to not ask her why she ignored you. Ask her when she ll be back ! Be cool
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