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Im 17 and I’m going to lose my virginity tomorrow, iv never had anything inside of me before and have no experience at all. Does anyone have any advice or tips as I don’t want to be completely clueless, I have no idea how to give a bj or anything and I know he’s experienced so I don’t want him to compare me to other girls as I’m so worried I’m going to be awful
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Im 17 and I’m going to lose my virginity tomorrow, iv never had anything inside of me before and have no experience at all. Does anyone have any advice or tips as I don’t want to be completely clueless, I have no idea how to give a bj or anything and I know he’s experienced so I don’t want him to compare me to other girls as I’m so worried I’m going to be awful
Hi, the best thing to remember is for the first time it's not always going to be amazing and it probably won't live up to the expectation of it. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and take it slowly.. if at any point you don't want to carry on then let your partner know that..

It will feel better if your relaxed and you may need lube to help things feel less uncomfortable, ask him to go slowly and make sure you tell him it's your first time so he knows to be careful.. you should feel comfortable enough to talk to him and tell him what feels good and what doesn't.. don't forget birth control and if he has had experience I would recommend he wears a condom to avoid any STI's.

Good luck and don't worry about it to much!
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how was it ?
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Im 17 and I’m going to lose my virginity tomorrow, iv never had anything inside of me before and have no experience at all. Does anyone have any advice or tips as I don’t want to be completely clueless, I have no idea how to give a bj or anything and I know he’s experienced so I don’t want him to compare me to other girls as I’m so worried I’m going to be awful
It'll just come in the moment to be honest. I'm 18 and I lost my virginity last week to my boyfriend of 6 months, and I had no issues. My boyfriend had been with one other girl, so he was experienced as well, but if your boyfriend really loves and cares about you, he'll be compassionate about the fact that it's your first time, and he won't ever judge or compare you to other girls. Men are more understanding than they seem!
I didn't know much about sex or anything until I was really comfortable with him... I'd suggest the two of you watch porn together (although be aware that porn is *supposed* to look erotic) as that can help with ideas on how to blow etc. It's not that hard. Although, one mistake I made was when I gave him a hj was that I rubbed the head of his penis, which caused him to wince, so never touch the head. But, the head is great if you want to swirl your tongue around it however. If your bf has a foreskin, rub that. Or, ask him to show you how he masturbates
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