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    Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been playing with each other's zones whenever I'm over at his place during the weekends. Masturbation has always been something I've done clandestinely ... but I notice now that I can only achieve release if I clench my legs tight together and be extremely frustrated for that release. My boyfriend's been rubbing me down there but though I'm turned on by the mere fact that he's on top of me, I can't achieve that release. Maybe I'm not turned on enough? Or is it really something else? I know it's not him.

    I'd just like an outside opinion.
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    Tell him to do it the way you like it...?
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    wouldn't it be weird though? like ... put your hand there and let me squeeze the blood out of it with my legs while you work it? xD I'm just wondering whether it's normal ... not so much how to achieve release.
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    wouldn't it be weird though? like ... put your hand there and let me squeeze the blood out of it with my legs while you work it? xD I'm just wondering whether it's normal ... not so much how to achieve release.
    It's something you need to work at by yourself first, if you can only achieve climax by putting this kind physical pressure behind it then you need to find another way. It's much easier if you're really aroused before you attempt this.
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    If you're comfortable with each other, than you should just tell him what you like.

    Don't make it like a science lesson though.

    Think sexy.
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    Squeeze the blood out of it?

    It will probably feel better for your bf anyway if your tightening up.
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    I find it ALOT easier to achieve an orgasm on my own, and rarely have with a partner, and those rare occassions were no where near in comparison.
    This is despite having had long term partners who have known my body well and whom i've told what to do, but it's not the same.

    I would suggest that it may be that you're not as turned on.
    Dress up in a kinky outfit for him...light candles...play soft, romantic music...maybe use some toys? Possibly watch porn together. If you touch yourself infront of him...a)he'll be majorly turned on by it and b) you can get clost to release and therefore alot more sensitive down there, then let him take over.


    Oh, oh, try something very sensual, involving more erogenous areas...maybe a scalp massage, then encourage him to move his massage down to your breasts, kiss your neck etc, etc
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    yeah I suppose it's that I'm not as aroused as I should be.
    Thanks all.
 
 
 
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