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Vanessa Chuah
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My boyfriend is following really attractive girls on Instagram and it makes me so insecure. I'm already insecure about myself and ****. I hope nobody attacks me but I'm just speaking the truth.
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It makes me feel as if I'm not enough for him sexually because he's following sexy models on Instagram.
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(Original post by Vanessa Chuah)
It makes me feel as if I'm not enough for him sexually because he's following sexy models on Instagram.
do you not fantasize about good looking male celebs or follow them? he wouldn't be with you if you weren't enough for him. but its normal for all people to still have crushes. every girl i dated used to openly talk about all the good looking celebs they liked. we just took it on the chin. do the same
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It makes me feel as if I'm not enough for him sexually because he's following sexy models on Instagram.
i think a lot of men do that no expecially when they are in a relationship but you should just avoid that unless he is talking with them
if he do that it is disrespectful !
so don't worry☺
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(Original post by goggleyed)
do you not fantasize about good looking male celebs or follow them? he wouldn't be with you if you weren't enough for him. but its normal for all people to still have crushes. every girl i dated used to openly talk about all the good looking celebs they liked. we just took it on the chin. do the same
Yes, I do find some male celebrities attractive but the thing is that I'm so insecure about myself I can't see it like that.

(Original post by ~•TIYA•TAKA)
i think a lot of men do that no expecially when they are in a relationship but you should just avoid that unless he is talking with them
if he do that it is disrespectful !
so don't worry☺
Okay thank u! it's kinda hard to think of it that way because I feel really bad about myself.
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tell him you find it disrespectful
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Don't take it personally.
They are female professional models and celebrity influencers paid to promote on social media who he is unlikely to ever meet or get to know as people.
Same as the male hollywood actors, celebrity musicians and sports stars that many girls follow on social media.
There is nothing to be jealous of, your bf wants to be in a relationship with you because he likes your personality.
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Okay thank u! it's kinda hard to think of it that way because I feel really bad about myself.
your reaction is absolutly normal
if i have had a boyfriend who follows beautiful girls i will just think i am out of his league.
but it will be stranger if he was only following random guys right ?🤔
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Yes, I do find some male celebrities attractive but the thing is that I'm so insecure about myself I can't see it like that.
then the problem lies with you and you need to work on that. learn how to love yourself
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(Original post by Vanessa Chuah)
It makes me feel as if I'm not enough for him sexually because he's following sexy models on Instagram.
Believe me
I would feel jealous if I had a girlfriend who followed sexy boys on insta.
I would really think that I am not enough for her...
But maybe we should just consider it is just fantasising...
But then again I would so jealous...
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Honestly, despite popular opinion I don't think you should put up with or accept this if you feel uncomfortable or disrespected because I think it is disrespectful and unnecessary. Why does he need to follow hot insta models? To **** to and lust after? Is he going to die if he doesnt follow them?

I just think there is no reason for it and it's disrespectful. But ofc women are conditioned in this society to think it's alright for men to lust after and fantasize about every woman on the planet
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