Disappointing first time

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I’m a guy and I recently had sex for the first time. It was nothing like I was expecting, I barely got any pleasure from it.

I was very relaxed and I doubt there was any psychological barrier which would result in me not getting pleasure.

I was expecting to ejaculate pretty quickly upon entering the vagina yet I lasted so much longer than I expected - which as much as people would boast about, it’s not ideal.

I always imagined, and people tell me, that sex feels amazing to them. But to me it didn’t feel like anything? I didn’t get pleasure because there was nothing much to feel.

I was wearing a thin condom yet most other people use protection too and don’t seem to have this problem.

I just worry for the future and if this is a problem I can fix. Or perhaps it’s not a problem at all and it’s rather quite a common thing?

Any help would be much appreciated
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Anonymous #1
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Also my penis came out the vagina a couple of times and I genuinely couldn’t tell the difference between whether it was in there or not.
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Have a look here: https://www.getroman.com/health-guid...20is%20missing.

Depending on whether this is uniquely during PIV sex, or also during masturbation/other kinds of sex, there could be different reasons behind it, but it's certainly not normal to feel absolutely nothing during sex.

Have you thought about speaking to your GP?
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The first time is always not going to be glorious. Of course it won't be. My first time was really awkward: my boyfriend literally asked me "do you want to ****" before, and then he struggled for five minutes to get his penis in, and I didn't orgasm. However, I wouldn't say I'm disappointed, nor do I regret it, because I knew it wouldn't be amazing. It's all about practice: you can't just automatically expect to be an expert at driving a car or riding a bike if you've never done it before, but after around 20 times, maybe. You get me?
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