GIRLS...do you expect the guy to make the first move?Watch
I'm single now but every ex bf made the first move.
Even the blind-date from hell whose mother made him call me to ask for another date because she wanted to see me again.
I made the first move with my current partner (and many previous partners).
By 'first move'... I mean like, their body language was very suggestive, though they didn't exactly throw themselves snogging at me. Some grabbed my arm. Poked my kidneys from behind (Ffs don't ever do that, I have reflexes). One even stalked me, recently : / (on this site, lol). Others tried to get me drunk at gatherings.
I'm just not a 'fling' type of person, and wasn't ready for a relationship either in most cases. I wasn't ready to settle or risk holding myself back in any way. Most of them certainly weren't 'fling' types either. Most were nice. Except the for the kidney vampires. Some were just opportunists though.