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We met tonight as I didn't really give him chance to explain why I dumped him. He says he will go counselling if it means working it out. I said we both need to change, stop being secretive and go out more as we stopped going out to places altogether and meeting up. I have told him I need to think about it, I love him just don't know don't want to throw it away but also be a doormat. Trouble is my family and workmates know what has happened Would Relate counselling help?
Counselling isn't magic and won't necessarily keep you together.
I think the best place to start is talking things through with each other, as there is obviously lots you have been holding back. He is saying he is willing to change the way he has been behaving, but will he put his words into actions. Thats for you to decide, but only time and a good deal of talking can usually sort these sorts of things.