it can feel uncomfortable, and even hurt, if you’re not relaxed. chill and breathe. u can’t get anything up there if you’re tense. also, make sure the area is lubricated (with blood or if not, look up other lubricant options online), and use a tampon of the right size according to ur flow. if you’ve followed these steps and it still really really hurts, don’t force it. leave it and give it a try another time. u may feel very frustrated, but I promise you’ll get there. be patient and, above all, relax!
Can I ask: how big is the hole for 12yo - 13 in November?
It is just that I now know WHERE it is, just can’t even fit my pinkie in.
Train 6 days a week every week for 2 hours so thats 12hours a week I’m in the pool
Sorry should’ve been specific/
I have tried:
Finding comfortable positions
Trying with my finger to find it properly (washed hands)
In the shower 🚿
Just nothing seems to work
Maybe I need to go to social workers after all
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Any advice encouraged