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(Original post by twinklelittlstar)
it can feel uncomfortable, and even hurt, if you’re not relaxed. chill and breathe. u can’t get anything up there if you’re tense. also, make sure the area is lubricated (with blood or if not, look up other lubricant options online), and use a tampon of the right size according to ur flow. if you’ve followed these steps and it still really really hurts, don’t force it. leave it and give it a try another time. u may feel very frustrated, but I promise you’ll get there. be patient and, above all, relax!
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Can I ask: how big is the hole for 12yo - 13 in November?
It is just that I now know WHERE it is, just can’t even fit my pinkie in.
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*only time you should need tampons is when you go swimming
Oh how embarrassing: I need them because I am a professional swimmer 🏊*♀️

Train 6 days a week every week for 2 hours so thats 12hours a week I’m in the pool

Ahhhh
Sorry should’ve been specific/
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Has anyone else got any advice

I have tried:
Finding comfortable positions
Trying with my finger to find it properly (washed hands)
Relaxing
In the shower 🚿
With lube

Just nothing seems to work
Maybe I need to go to social workers after all

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Any advice encouraged
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Thank you

twinklelittlstar
Can I ask: how big is the hole for 12yo - 13 in November?
It is just that I now know WHERE it is, just can’t even fit my pinkie in.
don’t worry about how big it is, it stretches. tbh, sounds to me like you’re in a rush. if you’re tense, ur vaginal muscles contract and getting anything up there can be next to impossible. use lube and an applicator, and give it time. if it’s not today, try again tomorrow. don’t rush it. also, have u looked at your hymen? (grab a mirror and place it so u can see the entrance to ur vagina). it’s rare, but sometimes ur hymen might be so broad u can’t get a tampon past it. in that case, u might want to reach out for help. if there’s anyone u feel comfortable with, perhaps in ur swimming team or ur coach, u might want to ask them for advice or to help you.
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Can trans have periods
sometimes i think
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