It’s like my 20th time having sex and it’s finally starting to feel good.

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Candyaholic347
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Is it normal to take this long? I think part of it has to do with anxiety.
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The more you "big it up" the weirder it is going to feel and the tenser you will have been it might just have taken you longer to fully let go and stop subconsciously stressing. As long as you're safe, trust the other person and arent doing something either of you doesn't want to be doing you're all good. I know its cliche but remember it is different for everyone
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Congratulations on having enjoyable sex now

'Normal' is a tricky one with sex - ideally sex should always be enjoyable and not painful. However, it's normal for it to take awhile for you and your partner(s) to be comfortable with each other, be relaxed, and know each others' bodies well. If you can, speak to your partner(s) about what you do and don't enjoy, what you'd like them to do, and check in with them too (maybe they also didn't find the first 19 times so great!) Hopefully, the sex will just keep getting better.
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(Original post by Candyaholic347)
Is it normal to take this long? I think part of it has to do with anxiety.
Very normal! When people first start having sex they often worrry about performance Then they eventually realise, as they relax, that it is not a performance test and it is actually about connection. And then naturally they get better at it!
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Is this with the same partner ? If so, 20 times is a lot to start enjoying sex. If you had a lot of sex in a short time, like a few weeks that might explain it as you are more relaxed now. Besides, sex is like the weather, sometimes its nice or even great - other times not so good. Thats normal.
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(Original post by dennaj54)
Is this with the same partner ? If so, 20 times is a lot to start enjoying sex. If you had a lot of sex in a short time, like a few weeks that might explain it as you are more relaxed now. Besides, sex is like the weather, sometimes its nice or even great - other times not so good. Thats normal.
It depends. The tantric variety is always good!
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