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Oh please, hoe is a stigma & based around slut shaming, guys sleeping with many girls, in the majority don’t get called anything shameful
Actually this are a few shameful terms for men that behave like this "man-whore" "fk boy". Tbh i dont understand why did this behavior is praised and why feminist advocate for women to behave like this when the consequence are naturally worse for women. It is shameful behavior regardless of whether it's men or women who do this and should be frowned upon. It leads to numerous social consequences such as cheating, increased STIs, unwanted pregnancy, single mum and abortions.
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nope. i used to sed nudes to multiple guys and sext with guys before i had a bf. you're not a hoe. i'm just saying be careful who you send them to. how old are you and the people?
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nope. i used to sed nudes to multiple guys and sext with guys before i had a bf. you're not a hoe. i'm just saying be careful who you send them to. how old are you and the people?
so you're saying she's not a hoe bc you behaved the same way and to defend yourself you have to defend her?
i'm sure you must have changed since that time but clearly not enough, why would you advocate sexting?
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“Slut shaming” is just radical feminist term used as an excuse failing to accept self-accountability. As for guys, they are no different.
Nah it’s misogyny plain and simple. Trying to make women feel bad for being promiscuous.
Post rude pics/Sleep with as many people as you want if you ain’t In a monogamous relationship, there should be no shaming involved.
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Nah it’s misogyny plain and simple. Trying to make women feel bad for being promiscuous.
Post rude pics/Sleep with as many people as you want if you ain’t In a monogamous relationship, there should be no shaming involved.
it doesn't matter what it is. you should feel bad for being promiscuous.
imo its only misogyny when you call someone that when it is an untrue statement for example when you generalise and call all women hoes or something.
also i think sleeping around is disgusting and unfair to people when they don't know bc they are unaware of the possibility of a std
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so you're saying she's not a hoe bc you behaved the same way and to defend yourself you have to defend her?
i'm sure you must have changed since that time but clearly not enough, why would you advocate sexting?
well when i did this i was under 18. and i'm still under 18. if OP is over 18 then i think it's fine. i'm just saying be careful who you send them unless you want your friends to see it. i'm speaking on experience. that's why i stopped sending nudes to guys who ask for it. i sometimes send semi-nudes to my boyfriend but i be careful and i NEVER send a naked picture and NEVER put my face in it.
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nope. i used to sed nudes to multiple guys and sext with guys before i had a bf. you're not a hoe. i'm just saying be careful who you send them to. how old are you and the people?
🤦🏾*♂️🤦🏾*♂️
If a geezer did this you’d call him every name under the Sun - stop defending her
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🤦🏾*♂️🤦🏾*♂️
If a geezer did this you’d call him every name under the Sun - stop defending her
not if he's a virgin. and i'm not saying what she doing is right because it's wrong. and when i used to do this i was called a hoe. so i'm not really sure. :/
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Actually this are a few shameful terms for men that behave like this "man-whore" "fk boy". Tbh i dont understand why did this behavior is praised and why feminist advocate for women to behave like this when the consequence are naturally worse for women. It is shameful behavior regardless of whether it's men or women who do this and should be frowned upon. It leads to numerous social consequences such as cheating, increased STIs, unwanted pregnancy, single mum and abortions.
Allot fewer then compared to the vast amount of shaming that gets flung at women who decide to sleep around. because the consequences could be worse for women doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be allowed to have the same amount fun or sleep around like guys do.
Certain people are gonna cheat whether they have slept with one or thirty people. It says more about the Individual then have any relation to the amount of sex they’ve had.
What’s so terrible about a single parent family?
Also there are Plenty of non heteronormative relationships and which lead to no single mums or pregnancy. Yay for gay sex.
There’s Also nothing wrong with abortions.
In addition there is such a thing as safe sex, and providing that adhered to is the risk of STIs/can be minimised, & treatments can be given if you do get one.
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it doesn't matter what it is. you should feel bad for being promiscuous.
imo its only misogyny when you call someone that when it is an untrue statement for example when you generalise and call all women hoes or something.
also i think sleeping around is disgusting and unfair to people when they don't know bc they are unaware of the possibility of a std
Why should you feel bad if it’s consensual & no ones getting hurt??


& calling women derogatory names because they sleep around is misogyny whether it be one or hundreds.
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well when i did this i was under 18. and i'm still under 18. if OP is over 18 then i think it's fine. i'm just saying be careful who you send them unless you want your friends to see it. i'm speaking on experience. that's why i stopped sending nudes to guys who ask for it. i sometimes send semi-nudes to my boyfriend but i be careful and i NEVER send a naked picture and NEVER put my face in it.
OP is 16 so no, its not okay
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OP is 16 so no, its not okay
didn't know that. but yes i think it's very wrong. and if she still wants to (because we can't tell her what to do) i'm telling her to be careful who she sends it to.
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You're not a hoe but it sounds like you don't know what you want.

Its normal to want to explore your sexuality but please be careful as if you're sending nudes and you're 16, it is considered 'child porngraphy' and you both could get in trouble.

It doesn't matter if you speak to 1 guy or 20 guys, you're not a hoe but please be safe
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Why should you feel bad if it’s consensual & no ones getting hurt??


& calling women derogatory names because they sleep around is misogyny whether it be one or hundreds.
well i'm a woman and if let's say i cheated on my bf and he calls me a hoe then i think that's fair bc i disrespected the relationship and him and that does hurt feelings, sleeping around casually with regular partners hurts feelings if they had hope of a real relationship and did not know they were not the only one.
sleeping with someone to satisfy your needs is selfish if one is dismissive of the other's feelings.
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not if he's a virgin. and i'm not saying what she doing is right because it's wrong. and when i used to do this i was called a hoe. so i'm not really sure. :/
Being a virgin has nothing to do with it.
She’s sexting multiple guys and a geezer said he loves him and she hasn’t let him know he isn’t interested - she’s leading them on
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it doesn't matter what it is. you should feel bad for being promiscuous.
imo its only misogyny when you call someone that when it is an untrue statement for example when you generalise and call all women hoes or something.
also i think sleeping around is disgusting and unfair to people when they don't know bc they are unaware of the possibility of a std
You're assuming people don't have safe sex or get tested regularly? If you wanna sleep with 1 person your entire life thats cool but if someone wants to consensually sleep with multiple people thats fine too.
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She has also broken the law by distributing sexual images as she’s 16
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you can't be a worse hoe than Dell PC :K:
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Being a virgin has nothing to do with it.
She’s sexting multiple guys and a geezer said he loves him and she hasn’t let him know he isn’t interested - she’s leading them on
idek anymore tbh. you're making good points now. i'd definetely say she is a, "player" but not sure about the hoe part.
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you can't be a worse hoe than Dell PC :K:
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