telling my boyfriend that i am a little

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i have not had a response yet just people making me feel **** about myself
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Dont say that. You still want to let hm know right.
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I realised how old I am after this thread...
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i have not had a response yet just people making me feel **** about myself
What is it you want you boyfriend to do about it once you tell him this? He probably initially won't even understand what "a little" is. Like a lot of people on this thread struggled with.

It's not really my area, or anyone's area to be frank. It's hard to give practical advise for that reason. But if you have a slightly better/more specific idea of what you would like to expect from your boyfriend, it's never a bad thing in any relationship.
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?????????? what
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yes i do still want to tell him but now i am more wrried about his reaction judging by how people on her have reacted
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No, I meant as in I didn't know the meaning of 'a little'. I'm not very good with slang.
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i have not had a response yet just people making me feel **** about myself
One or two:

People are generally kink unfriendly on this site so it's the wrong place to ask.

Being open with him is probably the best way as above.
Tell him " i am a little and i like being babied and taken care of and stuff like that"
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i have a personal question, you dont have to answer but whats the age dfference
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he is my age
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yes i do still want to tell him but now i am more wrried about his reaction judging by how people on her have reacted
I think you should follow some people's advise though and try to figure out why you feel this need to have this type of relationship though. It could (maybe not, I don't know) point to other mental health problems. Hopefully not. Please don't take this as some type of insult though.

This type of relationship/fetish/(???) is very unconventional... and even though I know a fair bit about various areas of psychology, this area is one that was on the very outer periphery of my knowledge. I was vaguely aware of such things before, but hardly know anything about it to advise properly.

Don't be dissuaded by people acting inconsiderate though. Gay community faced it too at one point, and they came around eventually. Just... be wise about it.
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you shouldnt have a majour problem then. Just say it casually and say. I love the way you treat me but....
Thats all i have
Not so helpful but a try
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No, I meant as in I didn't know the meaning of 'a little'. I'm not very good with slang.
I was just making a stupid joke about a possible awakening as a little. Sorry...
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i have been a little for a while now and i dont know how to tell my boyfriend its kinda hard for me but i know i can tell him anything he is the one for me its just i dont know how to tell him that i am a little and i like being babied and taken care of and stuff like that but i dont know how to tell him any help will be nice

I saw a doccumentary on something like this once. and this woman [about 25] liked dressing up like a toddler and acting like a toddler, and speaking like a toddler and role playing and her bf would have sex with her etc..

It was one of the most disturbing sexual things I have come across. I felt like a proper pedophile watching them role play, and feel like a male watching this stuff regularly or role playing it could become attracted to very young children
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i dont do it sexually
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i have a mental health condition that causes this but he has always been very careing towards me and loves me for me nd who i am and i am not little like 24/7 i just do it a bit
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I was just making a stupid joke about a possible awakening as a little. Sorry...
I think OP assumed a lot of users would know what a little is. Those who didn’t know, assumed OP is a troll.

No need to be sorry.
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I saw a doccumentary on something like this once. and this woman [about 25] liked dressing up like a toddler and acting like a toddler, and speaking like a toddler and role playing and her bf would have sex with her etc..

It was one of the most disturbing sexual things I have come across. I felt like a proper pedophile watching them role play, and feel like a male watching this stuff regularly or role playing it could become attracted to very young children
TBH I had an ex try this with me years ago, wanted to be called Lucy and given a friggin baby bottle and stuff. Dumped at speed, got back with her ex and drove him to suicide a few months later, I associate these people with seriously bad vibes.
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