Boyfriend screenshotted nudes?

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Is he using it to masturbate or what...?
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Yes, he is.
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OK, just wondering because I don't want him to send it to other people if we break up.
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How old are you both?

I'd bet under 18 if you're asking this question...
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if he did that without your permission, take a long hard look at your relationship with him. How much do you really trust him if you're worried he'll show other people if you break up?

also as a general word of advice ~don't send nudes~ because once they're gone you literally have no control over where they'll end up
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(Original post by charl.elise)
if he did that without your permission, take a long hard look at your relationship with him. How much do you really trust him if you're worried he'll show other people if you break up?

also as a general word of advice ~don't send nudes~ because once they're gone you literally have no control over where they'll end up
Totally agree!

Bit of a **** move by him tbh... Really not cool!
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Is he using it to masturbate or what...?
I think it'll be added to his Wa*k bank for sure, or something like that. Revenge porn is illegal, if he is someone to leak nudes or show anyone, then I guess force him to delete it, if you access his phone when you're around him could work. I know I might be bashed for suggesting that you go on someone else's device, but hey if he has pictures of your body, and doesn't delete it then you have to do what you have to do to protect yourself.
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Straight to his [email protected] bank
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Anonymous #2
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if he shares them it is illegal.

I understand the draw of sending nudes but I stopped primarily for peace of mind so I suggest you consider that
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(Original post by kekedoyouloveme?)
I think it'll be added to his Wa*k bank for sure, or something like that. Revenge porn is illegal, if he is someone to leak nudes or show anyone, then I guess force him to delete it, if you access his phone when you're around him could work. I know I might be bashed for suggesting that you go on someone else's device, but hey if he has pictures of your body, and doesn't delete it then you have to do what you have to do to protect yourself.
It might not seem such a big deal now... But give it a few years and it definitely will be if they get leaked. Imagine him selling his phone and not deleting them, or one of his friends going through his phone.

Depending on your age, he could potentially end up it prison, on a register, with no career... It could escalate a lot...!

I would ask him to delete them and explain how serious you are about it, tactfully point out how potentially bad it could be for him. Then once it has all settled, may be consider whether he's actually really worth being with. Doesn't sound as if he's very respectful
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Out of interest - what else do you think someone is going to do with a nude of you?
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If you're asking a question like this then you probably shouldn't be sending nudes tbh.
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Definitiely
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(Original post by geekypepper)
It might not seem such a big deal now... But give it a few years and it definitely will be if they get leaked. Imagine him selling his phone and not deleting them, or one of his friends going through his phone.

Depending on your age, he could potentially end up it prison, on a register, with no career... It could escalate a lot...!

I would ask him to delete them and explain how serious you are about it, tactfully point out how potentially bad it could be for him. Then once it has all settled, may be consider whether he's actually really worth being with. Doesn't sound as if he's very respectful
Agreed, revenge porn is illegal as I re-iterated in my comment, it can be even leaked by a friend of the boy, even if the boy said stop, happened in thirteen reasons why, even though that's fiction, these things can easily happen. If you trust him, fair enough, but, if not they need to get that deleted, it can cause a lot of distress
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How old are you?
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Probably, yeah. I still think it's not very polite of him to screen shot them (for want of a better word).

(Original post by Anonymous)
OK, just wondering because I don't want him to send it to other people if we break up.
That is (unfortunately) a risk you take when you send nudes. It would be illegal if he did this, but he might not. A friend might see it on his phone or something, and think it'd be funny to send it to one of his mates or whatever. Lots could go wrong.
As someone said above, if that's something you're worried about him doing, you should re-evaluate the relationship, cause it sounds like you don't really trust him.
How old are you? You don't sound old enough to be sending nudes.
You have to be at least 18, otherwise you could be charged with distribution (and I suppose production of) child porn, and any one you send them to could be charged with possession (which are obviously all quite serious offences).
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He will share them
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Is he using it to masturbate or what...?
How old are you?
If it's under 18 then this is child pornography you're sending out and you need to stop.
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What do you think he’s using them for ffs smh?🤦🏾*♂️🤦🏾*♂ ¸
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