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Hello, I am an 18 yo female with....a small chest (A cup, to be exact). Now, this post comes from my insecurity about my small chest. A lot of guys I meet fantasize/want a girlfriend with big boobies and I feel like that damages my confidence / self esteem. I feel like no one will want to date me because of my small chest. Since I am 18, my body is "fully developed" and they will not grow any bigger, which upsets me even more. However, I don't want a plastic surgery for that. Are there any guys out there who enjoy smaller cups and why?
Hi there
The question is
Who is the guy you are looking for? Is it because of him that you want big chest?
I mean did you notice that some of the guys you are interested in want girls with big breast?
There are definitely guys out there who prefer that. There are also definitely guys out there (pretty much all of them) who would overlook it if they were into you :smile:
...who likes......All the French males, their national heroine Marianne had ‘just enough’
(And as a dear friend told me, “more than a mouthful is a waste”)
Original post by Anonymous
Hello, I am an 18 yo female with....a small chest (A cup, to be exact). Now, this post comes from my insecurity about my small chest. A lot of guys I meet fantasize/want a girlfriend with big boobies and I feel like that damages my confidence / self esteem. I feel like no one will want to date me because of my small chest. Since I am 18, my body is "fully developed" and they will not grow any bigger, which upsets me even more. However, I don't want a plastic surgery for that. Are there any guys out there who enjoy smaller cups and why?

hey! i'm a girl so I can't say what I'm into but I've talked to a few guys about this and they all are totally chill with small boobs, I think guys liking big boobs is something that us girls are kinda made to believe from porn etc. but it's not the case at all! I assure you, you are beautiful and no guy worthy of your time will not want to date you because of your boobs :smile:
when a guy meets u and falls for u he’s not going to be concerned with ur boob size. i know plenty of people in happy and healthy relationships with size A or AA cup size. if you’re really that insecure, you could try gaining some weight and it may go to your chest. you could also do arm/chest exercises as these can accentuate your chest. overall it’s nothing to worry about
as long as you make him dinner everything will be fine
Reply 7
Original post by karl pilkington
as long as you make him dinner everything will be fine

He can make dinner himself, I'm not trying to be a housewife
Original post by Anonymous
He can make dinner himself, I'm not trying to be a housewife

well maybe you swallow?
Original post by Anonymous
He can make dinner himself, I'm not trying to be a housewife

👏👏👏👏 you go girl
Your breasts are perfect.

You have a fantastically youthful looking / athletic / firm / sporty body with very sexy, non droopy breasts.

Perfection comes in many forms. You just happen to have the sexiest form of perfection.

There are enough other men in the world with similar tastes to me to make your A cup size a huge asset for you.

Your breasts will probably get a big bigger with childbirth. But that's OK. They will still be perfect.

Your natural body shape is wonderful. It'd be a shame to make yourself less attractive by getting someone to stuff a couple of bags of silicon under your skin. But, at the end of the day it's your body and your choice.

Edit Oh and BTW, if you meet a guy that says that they prefer larger breasts, that's what's known as a s... test. All you have to do is give a non-reactive response to this test to pass it. EG pretend they didn't say it and carry on with the conversation. Or deliberately misinterprete it (in a jokey way) as if they gave you a huge sexual compliment.
EG "I normally fantasize about women with DD cups"
Reply "Oh that's so sweet of you to fantasize about how having sex with me would be better than the average porn star. But we've only just met. I think we should take things a bit slower, don't you?"
(edited 3 years ago)
Reply 11
Nothing wrong with small breasts.

Plenty of attractive girls don't have big breasts, there'll definitely be someone for you
I mean if it makes u feel any better, I have always knew I have had small boobs I am a 34D, I have never had a problem with them or felt insecure because I feel blessed that I can go round topless, think about all the cute crop- tops u can wear etc, less back pain. ++ my bf likes big titties but he still ended up with me and didn’t care because he said he still likes mine, we have a really good relationship too so I wouldn’t worry about it. Again it’s okay for a guy to have a preference but if he doesn’t like u for u then he doesn’t deserve u okay because overall personality over looks.
Original post by Anonymous
I mean if it makes u feel any better, I have always knew I have had small boobs I am a 34D, I have never had a problem with them or felt insecure because I feel blessed that I can go round topless, think about all the cute crop- tops u can wear etc, less back pain. ++ my bf likes big titties but he still ended up with me and didn’t care because he said he still likes mine, we have a really good relationship too so I wouldn’t worry about it. Again it’s okay for a guy to have a preference but if he doesn’t like u for u then he doesn’t deserve u okay because overall personality over looks.


I meant bra- less not top less omg.
Original post by Anonymous
Hello, I am an 18 yo female with....a small chest (A cup, to be exact). Now, this post comes from my insecurity about my small chest. A lot of guys I meet fantasize/want a girlfriend with big boobies and I feel like that damages my confidence / self esteem. I feel like no one will want to date me because of my small chest. Since I am 18, my body is "fully developed" and they will not grow any bigger, which upsets me even more. However, I don't want a plastic surgery for that. Are there any guys out there who enjoy smaller cups and why?


I'm 18 with big boobs and I don't get many guys that want to date because they're too much to handle lol. I'm bisexual and personally prefer smaller tits on girls and so do a lot of guys trust me. In terms of why I'm not sure...but I can tell you guys fantasise about all kinds of boobs. It's also likely that if a guy likes you a lot he will love you're tits whatever size they are...for example my bf doesn't like big tits but he loves mine for some reason.

My advice would be to ignore the guys that "want big boobies" and be patient, you'll find a guy who will love every bit of you regardless your boob size. Also if you have children in the future they will probably end up bigger...

Note that big tits are a pain in the ass - bras are expensive, you can't buy matching sets unless the come separately, dresses have to be stretchy, tops have to be stretchy and the back pain fml haha.

Hope that helps xx
Original post by Anonymous
Hello, I am an 18 yo female with....a small chest (A cup, to be exact). Now, this post comes from my insecurity about my small chest. A lot of guys I meet fantasize/want a girlfriend with big boobies and I feel like that damages my confidence / self esteem. I feel like no one will want to date me because of my small chest. Since I am 18, my body is "fully developed" and they will not grow any bigger, which upsets me even more. However, I don't want a plastic surgery for that. Are there any guys out there who enjoy smaller cups and why?


I’m a guy and I like girls with small boobs, no specific reason other than preference
Original post by Anonymous
Hello, I am an 18 yo female with....a small chest (A cup, to be exact). Now, this post comes from my insecurity about my small chest. A lot of guys I meet fantasize/want a girlfriend with big boobies and I feel like that damages my confidence / self esteem. I feel like no one will want to date me because of my small chest. Since I am 18, my body is "fully developed" and they will not grow any bigger, which upsets me even more. However, I don't want a plastic surgery for that. Are there any guys out there who enjoy smaller cups and why?

boobs can still grow till ur 21 so u might grow more yet
There are loads of guys who like small boobs n for lots of reasons
don't get upset and don't think ur any less beautiful cuz ur not
small boobs can be hot too

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