been talking to this guy for 9 months and the furthest we’ve ever gone is “doing bits” — obviously there is no time frame on when the right time to have sex is/i would never want to pressure him into it.
but, he said he’s slept with 2 girls before me (neither whom he was “official” with, just talking to, for a much shorter time than me) so this just kind of makes me feel a bit rubbish and like he isn’t sexually attracted to me?
we were together last night and during the ‘mood’ he told me “he doesn’t want to have sex until a few more times” - this is the first time he’s mentioned not wanting to, and i think it’s because i brought it up about it making me a bit upset recently - i COMPLETELY respect his decision of course but i just feel a bit upset with it because i’ve never experienced this before.
what should i do? what do you think it means? he doesn’t like me?