Do you get creepy Tinder messages? How do you react/deal with it?

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When I was on Tinder I used to get creeps commenting on the background of my photo which made me feel very uncomfortable. Like have they not got anything else to say as a opening message. Do you get creepy Tinder messages? If yes how do you react/deal with it?
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Yeah, and when I do I just unmatch them.
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(Original post by wastedcuriosity)
Yeah, and when I do I just unmatch them.
Same. I can't deal with that.
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(Original post by NativeAngloCelt)
Jesus ***** get over yourself. Its a perfectly reasonable opening gambit. How about you lot initiate the messaging?
...How about sending a friendly message instead of a creepy/weird one?
Also, I do initiate lmao, doesn't mean we don't get creepy messages still?
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...How about sending a friendly message instead of a creepy/weird one?
Also, I do initiate lmao, doesn't mean we don't get creepy messages still?
Be careful. He is a troll, known for his racism, homophobia, sexism and various other isms. He's a creep so he isn't one to be reasoned with.
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(Original post by NativeAngloCelt)
Oh go and trash another town centre you little w0g.
What the hell????
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(Original post by TheStarboy)
Be careful. He is a troll, known for his racism, homophobia, sexism and various other isms. He's a creep so he isn't one to be reasoned with.
Ah, okay thanks
I see he's just proven that by his reply below
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(Original post by NativeAngloCelt)
Unless its something intrusive why is referring to the background of a photo creepy? Just seems ludicrously over-sensitive.
I wasn't talking specifically about OP
Just creepy messages in general
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Ah, okay thanks
I see he's just proven that by his reply below
You're welcome
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Block them straight away.
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I don't get any matches on Tinder so unfortunately I don't get any messages.
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I don't use it. Just block them. They sound immature.
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'Creepy' has connotations of threatening, sleazy behaviour. If merely commenting on the background of a photo is now considered creepy, well that really exposes female entitlement for what it is.
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