Hey. Can I have help... again

I’m a teen and before you say, “ yOu shOulDnt bE conCerned aT tHiS agE”... just go. But I’m 15 now in year 11 and my boyfriend and I have issues, he doesn’t text me the only time I talk to him is night and most the times he falls asleep on me or he’s playing games or if I ask if he’s up to anything and if we can talk and if I’m interrupting he would be like, yeah not o be rude you are. And I feel like the way people view u is how they treat you. Ofc I don’t want him to dedicate his time all to me and IVE TRIED TALKING literally about this to him ALL THE TIME but he would text me the next day and then just stop. I try to be nice and I’m not toxic like most girls at our school so I tell him that he could go play games and to text me whenever he’s done, or to allways have fun and play games socialise with his friends and that’s it. He will never give me attention and I’m starting to believe my theory that he actually doesn’t care about me.. it hurts because I do a lot. He ISNT the type to talk to other girls behind my back he isn’t I mean it and wtf is he possibly doing. I can’t get his stupid ass to really be a boyfriend and I’ve tried, but ofc I’m not giving up on him. What should I do? Whenever I try texting first because maybe he’s like shy because this is his first relationship, I always feel like I Annoying him. And I’ll allways ask during the day if he’s doing anything so I don’t interrupt and he says yeah not to be rude I am in the middle of something.... so ladies and gents, what do I do?...

I would say as my first bit of advice is; I'd speak to him and try in any free time you have to pull him aside and tell him how you feel and to get where his head is at.

If that doesn't work, which judging from your issue, it doesn't seem like it will. I would suggest maybe proposing a break, some time for you to figure out if the relationship is worth going through, especially now you've got your GCSE's coming up (which i can tell you now is one big ball of stress), and some time for him to get his priorities together and figure out what he wants to do.

at the end of the day you guys are still young, and going through life and new experiences. Like you said this could be his first and he's still trying to navigate everything. But boys will be boys vice versa, enjoy the time you've got left of school, let him hand with his friends and you so the stuff that you enjoy, whether you should do that on the basis if being just friends or in a relationship, is entirely up to you.

Hope that helps x

That.. that was exactly what I needed. Thank you!!!!!! Thanks so much

I’m a teen and before you say, “ yOu shOulDnt bE conCerned aT tHiS agE”... just go. But I’m 15 now in year 11 and my boyfriend and I have issues, he doesn’t text me the only time I talk to him is night and most the times he falls asleep on me or he’s playing games or if I ask if he’s up to anything and if we can talk and if I’m interrupting he would be like, yeah not o be rude you are. And I feel like the way people view u is how they treat you. Ofc I don’t want him to dedicate his time all to me and IVE TRIED TALKING literally about this to him ALL THE TIME but he would text me the next day and then just stop. I try to be nice and I’m not toxic like most girls at our school so I tell him that he could go play games and to text me whenever he’s done, or to allways have fun and play games socialise with his friends and that’s it. He will never give me attention and I’m starting to believe my theory that he actually doesn’t care about me.. it hurts because I do a lot. He ISNT the type to talk to other girls behind my back he isn’t I mean it and wtf is he possibly doing. I can’t get his stupid ass to really be a boyfriend and I’ve tried, but ofc I’m not giving up on him. What should I do? Whenever I try texting first because maybe he’s like shy because this is his first relationship, I always feel like I Annoying him. And I’ll allways ask during the day if he’s doing anything so I don’t interrupt and he says yeah not to be rude I am in the middle of something.... so ladies and gents, what do I do?...

I'd do what the person above said- talking to him (or trying to) about the issue doesn't work. I'd ask for a break and if he misses you he should contact you and work on talking more!!

also, just an insight from someone who plays games and has friends (v close and not so much) who play games and we still can have casual conversations whilst playing- between rounds just a quick afk when it's safe etc especially if I haven't spoken to them all day!
I hope you manage to get your point through to him tho!