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Reply 20
dump him right now!!!
he is obviously not the sharpest tool in the box.
what idiot pays for porn nowadays???
Reply 21
Tell him your uncomfortable?

What other advice do you expect?

Cut off his internet connection. It is the only option.
Reply 22
Anonymous
Its quite kinky porn, not stuff I'm really into but am happy enough for him to watch it as I know some guys will just watch it anyway. I just feel uncomfotable as he says he hasn't got much money but is being silly subscribing. If I buy a house with him I don't see why I should pay for everything while he spends it on porn.

Just be honest with him and tell him that then, as everyone else has said, there's plenty of free porn.
The UK porn industry alone is now over £1bn annually. Clearly there are plenty of us idiots out there.
...though I do agree that £30/mth is excessive. Surely one subscription should suffice.
Reply 25
Anonymous
My boyfriend has subscribed to a number of porn websites which is costing over £30 a month, I have seen this from his emails and am not happy about this as I think it is a waste of money. What do I do?


Sorry but only fools pay for porn.

I recommend you go see him and force him into canceling :wink:.
Sit down and talk to him.
Tell him free porn is available. :yep:
WTF, it baffles me that people actually pay for porn these days when its so widely available for free. Your boyfriend is either crazy or it must be some really good porn that you can bust a knot to in under 30 seconds. If the latter is true then please forward me the site.
Reply 28
I feel a bit miffed as it has been ongoing for a bout a year and a half yet as a result we have ate out at crappy supermarket cafe's as he has 'no money' :frown:
Anonymous
I feel a bit miffed as it has been ongoing for a bout a year and a half yet as a result we have ate out at crappy supermarket cafe's as he has 'no money' :frown:


£30 p/month is hardly going to change that, really?

He's spending his money on something he enjoys, which is what money is for.

Granted, he could probably find just as good stuff on the YT-esque sites out there, but he's chose not to.
Anonymous
My boyfriend has subscribed to a number of porn websites which is costing over £30 a month, I have seen this from his emails and am not happy about this as I think it is a waste of money. What do I do?

Not your call, if he wants to he can. Get on with it.
Reply 31
TKnightrider
Not your call, if he wants to he can. Get on with it.


Iam worried cos if we get engaged or have children and a house he will still be paying for it.
Reply 32
Tell your boyfriend he is an absolute n00b.
Reply 33
Anonymous
My boyfriend has subscribed to a number of porn websites which is costing over £30 a month, I have seen this from his emails and am not happy about this as I think it is a waste of money. What do I do?

He's stupid. Why on earth would he do such a thing? Absolutely disgusting to think that someone, would go online and pay £30 to view porn when there's as much as you could possibly want free.
Reply 34
Anonymous
Iam worried cos if we get engaged or have children and a house he will still be paying for it.


How old are you? Other than being shocked that your bf actually pays for porn, I'm wondering if your a bit clingy. If your only 17/18 and been together for a few months don't you think getting engaged, buying a house and having childs is a bit... far forward looking?

I don't mean offence, but it's just the way you've worded it.
Reply 35
Kemik
How old are you? Other than being shocked that your bf actually pays for porn, I'm wondering if your a bit clingy. If your only 17/18 and been together for a few months don't you think getting engaged, buying a house and having childs is a bit... far forward looking?

I don't mean offence, but it's just the way you've worded it.


I am in my 20s and we have been together a few years so of course we are thinking to the future.
Trust me, when you've got a mortgage you won't notice £30/mth :smile:
Reply 37
Anonymous
I am in my 20s and we have been together a few years so of course we are thinking to the future.


You're rubbish. What girl gets stressed about her bf checkin out porn
Reply 38
Anonymous
Its quite kinky porn, not stuff I'm really into but am happy enough for him to watch it as I know some guys will just watch it anyway. I just feel uncomfotable as he says he hasn't got much money but is being silly subscribing. If I buy a house with him I don't see why I should pay for everything while he spends it on porn.


What exactly do you mean by kinky?
Could you be more specific? It's important that we know what we're dealing with here. If it's extreme pornography,I'd be concerned about your own personal safety.He might want to reenact his porn fantasies in real life.
Reply 39
Buy him a porn dvd sorted.