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Hey! I need help. Basically I said to my Boyfriend I was doing a surprise movie night tonight. I bought lots of snacks, pizza and set up a big monitor in my room from my mums and put fairy lights on the floor. My boyfriend came in and said it’s warm to be watching a film, then he said he’d prefer to watch it another time as he isn’t staying late. Cut a long story short, I was a bit worked up after going through this much effort. He said he was sorry and was mean to me about it. But I don’t get why he keeps doing this, he keeps saying stuff recently, not meeting up for long, saying he’s tired and not staying over. Idk I talked to him about it and he said that he still loves me.I just need advice.
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Just want some advice
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I feel maybe he doesn’t appreciate these nice things. After he says sorry he says he appreciates it
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Maybe hes seeing someone else
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Maybe hes seeing someone else
Why do you think this? Is it weird behaviour ?
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Why do you think this? Is it weird behaviour ?
We have been together for a while tho
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Why do you think this? Is it weird behaviour ?
He's either careless or has something more important in his mind. possibly cheating
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He's either careless or has something more important in his mind. possibly cheating
I think maybe he doesn’t think?But idk what to do ?

He wouldn’t cheat on me, he goes on his phone next to me and we open with each other. He barely talks to girls anyway
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He's either careless or has something more important in his mind. possibly cheating
I don’t think it could be that as he hates cheating with his past experiences. And so wouldn’t do it. Plus he is affectionate and thighs but just lacks that care
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He's either careless or has something more important in his mind. possibly cheating
I think careless is the right one but what do I do
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I think careless is the right one but what do I do
Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't change consider a break and see what he does
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Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't change consider a break and see what he does
Do you think I’m overreacting ? I just see that lack of care nowadays like I went to so much trouble tonight
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Do you think I’m overreacting ? I just see that lack of care nowadays like I went to so much trouble tonight
I don't think youre overreacting i think what you're feeling is very valid! Also i recommend changing your title to get more answers.
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I don't think youre overreacting i think what you're feeling is very valid! Also i recommend changing your title to get more answers.
Okay sure will do thank you !
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I don't think youre overreacting i think what you're feeling is very valid! Also i recommend changing your title to get more answers.
Won’t let me change it
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Won’t let me change it
Oh ok thats fine. You can make another thread and copy and paste what you said but for the title say something like 'bf is ignoring me' and youll get more responses from others!
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I don't think he was unreasonable to say it was too hot. I certainly wouldn't want to do that in this temperature.

You also say it was a surprise; you can't really expect him to say yes.
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I don't think he was unreasonable to say it was too hot. I certainly wouldn't want to do that in this temperature.

You also say it was a surprise; you can't really expect him to say yes.
You don’t usually complain around someone you love when they have put effort in. I planned a whole movie night for him to say to do it another day ? Do You. Think that’s fine
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You don’t usually complain around someone you love when they have put effort in. I planned a whole movie night for him to say to do it another day ? Do You. Think that’s fine
That would be a reasonable stance to take if you had told him in advance The key issue here is that it was a surprise.

You can't expect him to say yes. This is probably something you should have factored in when you decided to surprise him.

To be totally honest with you, it's far too hot for that sort of thing anyway, so it's hardly surprising he said no.
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