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Is it bad to want to have friends who want to do things with their lives?
Maybe this is on me and I need to go and do things and then I'll meet like minded people.
One of my friends literally won't do anything. She won't even get a job. She doesn't like talking to people (which is fine, not everyone is outgoing) and she won't go anywhere or do anything different. When we meet it's literally the same thing every time because she won't deviate. also, a bit strange but I have to do all the talking when we meet (which can be draining). My other friends all live away from me (too far to travel to more than once a couple of months).
I recently did an MA and met friends but even then, everything was kind of meh? We said we would do things but nothing ever came to fruition.
Idk, I feel bad thinking about my friend this way but...
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As soon as this pandemic is over, I'm planning on going to acting/drama classes and other things. I feel like I need more hobbies because with my family, unless it pays then there is no point in doing it. But it's made me so miserable. And having a friend who won't do anything is -_-

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