Need guy advice here

So heres the situation. I have this family friend, our parents are best mates and we have known each other since we were born. And we decided to go camping a few weeks back because we're best mates, but he ended up coming to my tent after everyone else went to sleep and I needn't say any more :wink:

but we haven't spoken about what happened between us and we carried on like normal but there's this massive elephant in the room when we talk. Idk wether to bring it up to him or to just leave it?
We are going camping just the two of us this Sunday on his farm and idk what to do because idk if it means anything to him because he's so nonchalant about it whereas I can't get it off my mind. On the plus if we ended up together and broke up it would make the BBQ get togethers rather on the awkward side but is it worth ittttt. So what the heckk do i do?

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Reply 1

Noreaga

All I hear is you waffling a whole lot of nothing!

What's the question?

Reply 2

meganw03

Original post by Noreaga

All I hear is you waffling a whole lot of nothing!

What's the question

i edited it so hopefully it should make sense now, kind of word vomitted and didn't read it back ..

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Reply 3

Noreaga

Original post by meganw03

i edited it so hopefully it should make sense now, kind of word vomitted and didn't read it back ..

How old are you?

Reply 4

meganw03

Original post by Noreaga

How old are you?

Reply 5

Noreaga

Original post by meganw03

You're a child. Concentrate on your studies!!!

Reply 6

SweetSexySavage

Original post by Noreaga

You're a child. Concentrate on your studies!!!

So bloody helpful

Reply 7

meganw03

Original post by Noreaga

You're a child. Concentrate on your studies!

chile, anyways so..

Reply 8

SweetSexySavage

Can’t tell what he wants unless you speak to him yourself. Sounds like a casual thing to him nothing serious. If you don’t want to continue with it just say so to him, and if you’re uncomfortable with it becoming an issue in the break up scenario then avoid it. But don’t let that put you off if you like him, but I’d make sure this feeling was mutual before anything else.

Reply 9

Noreaga

Original post by meganw03

chile, anyways so..

Chile?

No, I am not from Chile. I am from Morocco and Sicily.

Reply 10

meganw03

Original post by Noreaga

Chile?

No, I am not from Chile. I am from Morocco and Sicily.

its a tiktok reference. i went to morocco once, the mountains are gorgeous there

Talk to him about it

Original post by meganw03

its a tiktok reference. i went to morocco once, the mountains are gorgeous there

I don't use TikTok. Which part of Morocco did you visit? I am not a fan of Moroccans, but Morocco is beautiful. I prefer Sicily.

Reply 13

username5173262

Original post by meganw03

its a tiktok reference.

You know, I have a feeling it has more relevancy to black culture and Southern America than it does TikTok...

Reply 14

meganw03

Original post by 2_versions

You know, I have a feeling it has more relevancy to black culture and Southern America than it does TikTok...

nah its the word chill just spelt differently, thats my understanding of it anyway. i may be wrong but pretty sure thats all it is.

Reply 15

username5173262

Original post by meganw03

nah its the word chill just spelt differently, thats my understanding of it anyway. i may be wrong but pretty sure thats all it is.

Yeah you're pretty wrong. It's pronounced 'child' without the D. It's full phrase is Phew Chile, and it's said when there's a lot of drama / arguments going on. It's from the South of the USA. It blew up on Twitter some time in 2018 and quickly became a challenge for white girls to try and pronounce it correctly. I think the misinterpretation of it meaning chill is a joke on white peoples expenses...
edit: It's aave, just had to check if I got that right.