I'm 38, had these my whole life, and have totally lost all confidence - not only 'in the bedroom', but in general. Please don't just wish them away, certainly not if your mental health is suffering. Do something about it - see someone - and if your doctor is no help then see someone else. My doctor said they're normal and nothing could be done about them so I just accepted it. I hate him for that. I just found out they can be removed with CO2 laser treatment. Not had it done yet but booking it in ASAP. I wish I knew this when I was 17. If I did, I might have a family now...I genuinely feel like this has ruined my life. Hope this helps others.