Why do girls play hard to get?

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MichaelJeeha
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Why do girls play hard to get?
When there are literally prositutes and pornstars who are 9's and 10's who have sex with anyone?
Surely playing hard to get games shows youre not desireable long term partner?
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Well you say they wouldn't be a good long term partner but I don't think you are really interested in that at this point since you mentioned porn stars and prostitutes and quick sex. I hate the idea of chasing after someone, if they like me and I like them then there should be no need for a chase. Relationships aren't just about sex you know. Sure people can be quite beautiful but for a long term thing you need to like each other and there needs to be more than looks keeping you together. Another thing, prostitutes do it because they need money and porn starts also most of the time.
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(Original post by monkeyman0121)
Well you say they wouldn't be a good long term partner but I don't think you are really interested in that at this point since you mentioned porn stars and prostitutes and quick sex. I hate the idea of chasing after someone, if they like me and I like them then there should be no need for a chase. Relationships aren't just about sex you know. Sure people can be quite beautiful but for a long term thing you need to like each other and there needs to be more than looks keeping you together. Another thing, prostitutes do it because they need money and porn starts also most of the time.
so why does playing hard to get show youre worthy of a relationship?
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to me playing hard to get is slightly immature and petty.
if you really like someone and want to be with them, there's no need to play hard to get is there?
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I think if we play hard to get and you acctually put effort in to get us we realise you realllyyy do want us and we then know you’re not like messing us about and stuff
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because you lose interest if we're too easy
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If a girly says that she's not interested maybe you should just take no for an answer and not automatically assume that you are Gods gift to Earth and every girl who isn't concerned with you is playing hard to get.
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(Original post by fGCSEcba)
I think if we play hard to get and you acctually put effort in to get us we realise you realllyyy do want us and we then know you’re not like messing us about and stuff
(Original post by angelinahx)
because you lose interest if we're too easy
When a girl plays hard to get i usually just move onto the next girl, you're better off shows your personality and what you can do than play games
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(Original post by MichaelJeeha)
so why does playing hard to get show youre worthy of a relationship?
It doesn't, it's just the evidence you used doesn't really support your statement. playing hard to get is immature and not a great idea
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(Original post by giggylilly)
If a girly says that she's not interested maybe you should just take no for an answer and not automatically assume that you are Gods gift to Earth and every girl who isn't concerned with you is playing hard to get.
It was just a curious question because ive had girls like me, they tried to make me jealous then i just moved onto another girl
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Why shouldn't they? Playing hard to get means upping your game. They want to see how much effort you can put. You don’t have to play with them if you don’t want
(Original post by angelinahx)
because you lose interest if we're too easy
This ^
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(Original post by monkeyman0121)
It doesn't, it's just the evidence you used doesn't really support your statement. playing hard to get is immature and not a great idea
I agree
its just quite stupid
guys who play hard to get r just annoying and I just end up disliking them...
so personally I don't play hard to get or anything...I'm just me

but tbh if u don't play slightly hard to get its a bit boring lmao
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(Original post by MichaelJeeha)
When a girl plays hard to get i usually just move onto the next girl, you're better off shows your personality and what you can do than play games
playing/being hard too get has literally never stopped a guy from chasing me not even once but you do you!
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Your view of the world is a bit ****** up.
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(Original post by TheStarboy)
Why shouldn't they? Playing hard to get means upping your game. They want to see how much effort you can put. You don’t have to play with them if you don’t want


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(Original post by angelinahx)
playing/being hard too get has literally never stopped a guy from chasing me not even once but you do you!
What is he chasing you for lol? Are you the almighty beautiful? Has he seen some qualities of your personality which he likes?
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Your view of the world is a bit ****** up.
No its very logical, if shes playing hard to get im supposing theres definitely something in it for me, maybe physical beauty? But if its only Physical beauty couldnt i just sleep with a pornstar or prostitute heaps and bounds better looking than her to boost my confidence?
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(Original post by MichaelJeeha)
What is he chasing you for lol? Are you the almighty beautiful? Has he seen some qualities of your personality which he likes?
i don't know fr fr but even when i've had zero interest in guys they've continued chasing me :/ so i dont think its that much of a deterrent if he likes me
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(Original post by angelinahx)
i don't know fr fr but even when i've had zero interest in guys they've continued chasing me :/ so i dont think its that much of a deterrent if he likes me
hahah he likes that you play games with his heart, cant find that anywhere else number 1 quality in a wife
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(Original post by MichaelJeeha)
hahah he likes that you play games with his heart, cant find that anywhere else number 1 quality in a wife
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(Original post by MichaelJeeha)
hahah he likes that you play games with his heart, cant find that anywhere else number 1 quality in a wife
but don't you think this culture in which guys continue to go after girls after they expressed disinterest is just wrong
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