He uses the same term of endearment he used with his ex.Watch
My bf calls me in a very specific manner, he uses an original endearment term to call me since we both met.
Few days ago he created a Spotify playlist for me with the title of this name with some romantic songs in it and sent it to me but then I entered his public profile.
I felt terrible when I discovered that he had created a playlist for his ex too with other songs (2 or 3 repeated) but with the same name he uses to call me. (It was created when they were still together)
For some reason, I thought I was the only one he had called like that. It’s not even a romantic nickname but I made it mine in my head and now I feel bad. It may sound stupid but now I reject a bit being called like that.
I can understand we reuse romantic names like “love, honey, darling” etc but not this one. What can I do? Should I tell him or just keep silent about it? I thought of giving him a like in the playlist he created for her but I’m not sure how Spotify works. (As a way of saying “hey I know it”)
Alternatively it could be a sign that he's is not over an ex who dumped him.
Maybe let him know that the term makes you feel uncomfortable and suggest something else, maybe a nickname.