sexuality can be super confusing and ik it’s so easy to say this but don’t pressure yourself for a label, and if you think you’re bi and later realise you’re gay or anything like that it’s totally normal and fine! experiment when you’re at uni and see what you like x

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NonIndigenous

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Talking to yourself on your own thread doesn't ease the confusion to be honest. I'm lost as f... .

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username3508100

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Original post by Anonymous

Also no, I haven’t. I’ve just liked one girl that’s it

Why are you replying to yourself lol?

I'd say you're maybe bi-curious, but don't feel rushed to label yourself and put yourself in a box! Uni is a good time to experiment and get to know yourself and your preferences :smile:

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Original post by wastedcuriosity

Why are you replying to yourself lol?

I'd say you're maybe bi-curious, but don't feel rushed to label yourself and put yourself in a box! Uni is a good time to experiment and get to know yourself and your preferences :smile:

ffs😭😭😭😭, I’m such a clutz at this. It’s all new to me and how it works. But I think so, I don’t wanna rush and just wanna see things once I get to uni (hopefully). I don’t wanna tell anyone because I’ll be judged really badly

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Original post by NonIndigenous

Talking to yourself on your own thread doesn't ease the confusion to be honest. I'm lost as f... .

It was all meant to be one post or thread idk how this really works. I apolgise

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Anonymous

sexuality can be super confusing and ik it’s so easy to say this but don’t pressure yourself for a label, and if you think you’re bi and later realise you’re gay or anything like that it’s totally normal and fine! experiment when you’re at uni and see what you like x

Thank you I appreciate the advice and it’s helpful that you are able to help me. Once I get to uni maybe it’ll be a clearer picture

Dont worry about it

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Original post by Scottishlad888

Dont worry about it

What do you mean?

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Scottishlad888

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Original post by Anonymous

What do you mean?

What l mean is dont label yourself

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Scottishlad888

What l mean is dont label yourself

Well It would make it easier rather than me stressing

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Original post by Anonymous

Confused about my sexuality. 99% like guys but 1% of girls I have attraction too and can’t help. I’m 18 going uni this year. Any advice

Have you felt sexually attracted to a girl

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Original post by H4ttie03

Have you felt sexually attracted to a girl

I would kiss them but idk about doing sexual things, I’d just be scared

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Scottishlad888

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Original post by Anonymous

Well It would make it easier rather than me stressing

There is no point in stressing we are all who we are

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hxlimxh

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I think very much anyone can be "gay" if they put their mind to it. Maybe you were inticed by the idea of something new and intriguing so thought you were gay. I don't belive people are gay. I belive people assume they are due to an intriguing thought. So anyone can be gay. The real question is: why is it okay to act upon these feelings and manifest them? Why is it not okay? What defines your moral compass? No one is "born gay", they develop it overtime due to their experiences and also sometimes (rarely) a factor is due to their hormones and birth defects. ICBA for forums but here I am. 🍃.