Too scared to have sober sex

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I’m 21F. Whenever I have sex, it’s been when I am super drunk. I find it hard to have sex when I’m sober. I am not asexual. I love the concept of sex and I get horny time to time. But I hate thinking about a man on top of me - it scares me and makes me feel very uncomfortable. I’ve tried sober sex before and my partner would always ask why I’m so tight or why my heart is racing or say I look scared. I even try to avoid eye contact and look away when he tries to have sex with me. When I’m on top it’s not too bad but I don’t even like being on top that much anyways. When I’m drunk all my worries go away.

I don’t know why this is happening and I’d like not to be scared of sober sex.

Can anyone give me advice?
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Your prob scared of the pain. Just take it slow (foreplay)
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