Flirting is cheating?

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It seems obvious to me. If you are dating someone and flirt with someone else (whether it’s your ex or not, even though with the ex the line seems to be a bit more blatant)... even though you don’t consume in an act.. it’s cheating right? I m not saying it’s the thing to do in all cases but for me cheating must be responded with a definite break up (from thecheated one). If I were cheated on I d break up. But... bout flirting - do you see it as a soft way of cheating which would require a talk or some rough measures but not implying breaking up? As in you try to sort things out and solve stuff
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(Original post by Eccentric Goatie)
It seems obvious to me. If you are dating someone and flirt with someone else (whether it’s your ex or not, even though with the ex the line seems to be a bit more blatant)... even though you don’t consume in an act.. it’s cheating right? I m not saying it’s the thing to do in all cases but for me cheating must be responded with a definite break up (from thecheated one). If I were cheated on I d break up. But... bout flirting - do you see it as a soft way of cheating which would require a talk or some rough measures but not implying breaking up? As in you try to sort things out and solve stuff
yeah technically its cheating.
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Just don't cheat and don't forgive those who cheat. trust me on that one. And flirting is cheating no matter who says what. you wanna flirt? go flirt with your partner!
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Just don't cheat and don't forgive those who cheat. trust me on that one. And flirting is cheating no matter who says what. you wanna flirt? go flirt with your partner!
Exactly I have that opinion but I vê seen couples move on from that.. I think I can’t forgive a cheating.. and for me flirting is crossing that line. I wouldn’t feel comfortable moving on with that
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lol, is this thread about me?
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Exactly I have that opinion but I vê seen couples move on from that.. I think I can’t forgive a cheating.. and for me flirting is crossing that line. I wouldn’t feel comfortable moving on with that
Yeah don't forgive then. Just move on. I don't think it's worth staying
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lol, is this thread about me?
Originated yeah, but tbh was a dilemma I had in mind
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It seems obvious to me. If you are dating someone and flirt with someone else (whether it’s your ex or not, even though with the ex the line seems to be a bit more blatant)... even though you don’t consume in an act.. it’s cheating right? I m not saying it’s the thing to do in all cases but for me cheating must be responded with a definite break up (from thecheated one). If I were cheated on I d break up. But... bout flirting - do you see it as a soft way of cheating which would require a talk or some rough measures but not implying breaking up? As in you try to sort things out and solve stuff
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yeah technically its cheating.
I think regarding flirting as cheating is a little much tbh.

A lot of girls with bf's will flirt on a night out, but when you to try and take things further (number or kiss them) say they have a bf.

whilst flirting in a relationship is not ideal, i wouldn't say it's cheating......
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Originated yeah, but tbh was a dilemma I had in mind
well tbh, i don't think it's cheating. it's cheating if you do things such as dating others and/or having sex while in a commited relationship. yep, it's wrong. but i wouldn't consider it cheating.
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is liking two people at once also cheating when one of them is your partner and one of them is not?
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