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Anonymous #1
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My ex bf has nudes of me and he won't delete them saying he wants them to remember me how can I make him delete them should I go and confront him?
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Anonymous #2
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report him to the police and childline
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How old were you both when you sent them?
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Shouldnt have sent them in the first place!

Also if its just of your body and not your face in them or anything you can be identified by then it really shouldnt matter too much.
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Unless there's an age/child porn issue or they intend to share/publish, then you can't do anything, you gave them away.
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How old are you?
Did you provide him with the nudes?
Do the images include your face?
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If you're under 18, go to the police (it's illegal to have them). If not, you can't force him to delete them.
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(Original post by jebjeb27)
If you're under 18, go to the police (it's illegal to have them). If not, you can't force him to delete them.
If the OP is under 18 it's also illegal for them to have taken nudes and sent them! If the recipient is under 18 there may be no formal action taken by the police.
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it would be illegal for him to post them anywhere
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Anonymous #3
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lol you shouldn't have sent them
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(Original post by Anonymous)
My ex bf has nudes of me and he won't delete them saying he wants them to remember me how can I make him delete them should I go and confront him?
yes, and watch him do it. I hope you have learned your lesson? Your ex is awful.
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This is why you don’t send them in the first place..blows my mind people send nudes then cry people save them and **** like what did you expect 🤣 no wonder our police are so stretched beyond belief as they have to mop up everyone’s dumb mistakes but if you’ve asked him to delete and he refuses go to police and tell them your ex bf has your nudes with a straight face and that you want them deleting from his devices.

Also, age does play a very important factor here 🤦*♀️if she’s under 18 then yes she’s stupid for sending them but for him to keep them is illegal and the police will care a lot more about underage nudes than 18+ and tbh if you’re in UK and go to police about this and over 18 they really do not care..If I was you personally I would just tell my dad and go see his parents and explain and sort it out that way as it’s less embarrassing and his parents if they have brain cells will sort that out for you instantly and most kids listen to their parents and most parents will help you as they do the right thing but if not then threat of police involvement will make them help you in deleting them but it’s safe to say all his mates probably have them by now and they’re saved elsewhere, can only hope your face wasn’t in them.

And these people who keep pandering all these people sending nudes and **** then crying they get leaked etc and have to run to police should be embarrassed themselves..everyone should **** on these people so they don’t do it again..not oh it was a mistake you didn’t do anything wrong bla bla ****, so many people are sending nudes nowadays even under 16 are doing it and it blows my mind that they think it’s normal and there is no risks then afterwards come onto forums and stuff..point being don’t do it in the first place..
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This is why you don’t send them in the first place..blows my mind people send nudes then cry people save them and **** like what did you expect 🤣 no wonder our police are so stretched beyond belief as they have to mop up everyone’s dumb mistakes but if you’ve asked him to delete and he refuses go to police and tell them your ex bf has your nudes with a straight face and that you want them deleting from his devices.

Also, age does play a very important factor here 🤦*♀️if she’s under 18 then yes she’s stupid for sending them but for him to keep them is illegal and the police will care a lot more about underage nudes than 18+ and tbh if you’re in UK and go to police about this and over 18 they really do not care..If I was you personally I would just tell my dad and go see his parents and explain and sort it out that way as it’s less embarrassing and his parents if they have brain cells will sort that out for you instantly and most kids listen to their parents and most parents will help you as they do the right thing but if not then threat of police involvement will make them help you in deleting them but it’s safe to say all his mates probably have them by now and they’re saved elsewhere, can only hope your face wasn’t in them.

And these people who keep pandering all these people sending nudes and **** then crying they get leaked etc and have to run to police should be embarrassed themselves..everyone should **** on these people so they don’t do it again..not oh it was a mistake you didn’t do anything wrong bla bla ****, so many people are sending nudes nowadays even under 16 are doing it and it blows my mind that they think it’s normal and there is no risks then afterwards come onto forums and stuff..point being don’t do it in the first place..
And... breathe
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There is no need to take nudes and send them to anyone, it's just asking for trouble
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Also, age does play a very important factor here 🤦*♀️if she’s under 18 then yes she’s stupid for sending them but for him to keep them is illegal and the police will care a lot more about underage nudes than 18+ and tbh if you’re in UK and go to police about this and over 18 they really do not care..
It's not just stupid, it's illegal for anyone under the age of 18 to take and send nudes.

If you are going to hit home, then go full throttle because someone having nudes isn't just on them, the pics had to be created and distributed in the first place.
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report him to the police and childline
For what? There's no law against possessing said pictures if they were willingly sent. And if the pictures are of someone under 18 the OP is likely to land themselves in hot water for both making and distributing child porn.
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Do duah to allah. Only he can save you now
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(Original post by Anonymous)
And these people who keep pandering all these people sending nudes and **** then crying they get leaked etc and have to run to police should be embarrassed themselves..everyone should **** on these people so they don’t do it again..not oh it was a mistake you didn’t do anything wrong bla bla ****, so many people are sending nudes nowadays even under 16 are doing it and it blows my mind that they think it’s normal and there is no risks then afterwards come onto forums and stuff..point being don’t do it in the first place..
Oh calm down. Sure it was a stupid thing to do on OP's part but theres no need to add insult to injury.
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I bet if you told his parents he'd **** himself and delete it. talk to your parents, police or lie and say u have his.
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This is why you don’t send them in the first place..blows my mind people send nudes then cry people save them and **** like what did you expect 🤣 no wonder our police are so stretched beyond belief as they have to mop up everyone’s dumb mistakes but if you’ve asked him to delete and he refuses go to police and tell them your ex bf has your nudes with a straight face and that you want them deleting from his devices.

Also, age does play a very important factor here 🤦*♀️if she’s under 18 then yes she’s stupid for sending them but for him to keep them is illegal and the police will care a lot more about underage nudes than 18+ and tbh if you’re in UK and go to police about this and over 18 they really do not care..If I was you personally I would just tell my dad and go see his parents and explain and sort it out that way as it’s less embarrassing and his parents if they have brain cells will sort that out for you instantly and most kids listen to their parents and most parents will help you as they do the right thing but if not then threat of police involvement will make them help you in deleting them but it’s safe to say all his mates probably have them by now and they’re saved elsewhere, can only hope your face wasn’t in them.

And these people who keep pandering all these people sending nudes and **** then crying they get leaked etc and have to run to police should be embarrassed themselves..everyone should **** on these people so they don’t do it again..not oh it was a mistake you didn’t do anything wrong bla bla ****, so many people are sending nudes nowadays even under 16 are doing it and it blows my mind that they think it’s normal and there is no risks then afterwards come onto forums and stuff..point being don’t do it in the first place..
i ran out of breath reading that
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